Day 1 of Pastor Chris' Paraphrase of Proverbs Devotion

Day 1  What is wisdom? It's more than being smart. Wisdom is doing the right thing in the right way at the right time. It transcends intelligence and education. Wisdom starts with the Lord and is deeply spiritual, but it is far from naive.   Pastor Chris’ Paraphrase of Proverbs 1:1-7 These are the wise things Solomon, the king of Israel, the son of David said.  Their purpose is to teach wisdom and self-discipline, and offer understanding and insight so people can learn the disciplines of wisdom, right living, good judgment, and fairness.  These sayings also serve to teach the naive street-smarts and give young people the knowledge to succeed.   Even people who are already wise can learn a lot.  Listen and get as much wisdom as you can--the more the better; it helps you understand people’s strange ways. Knowing how things really are all starts with deep awe for the Lord; but fools turn their back on wisdom and refuse to learn. Wisdom all begins with a deep awe for God and the deeper your relationship with Him, the more wisdom available to you. Focus on your relationship with God as you read through Proverbs one chapter per day. You can gain more wisdom. Prayer "Father, help me to gain more wisdom that I may always do the right thing at the right time in the right way that I may serve You well and bring You glory. Amen." Read Proverbs Chapter 1
New American  Standard Bible	Pastor Chris’ Paraphrase
Proverbs 1 The Usefulness of Proverbs 1 The proverbs of Solomon the son of David, king of Israel: 2 To know wisdom and instruction, To discern the sayings of understanding, 3 To receive instruction in wise behavior, Righteousness, justice and equity; 4 To give prudence to the [a]naive, To the youth knowledge and discretion, 5 A wise man will hear and increase in learning, And a man of understanding will acquire wise counsel, 6 To understand a proverb and a figure, The words of the wise and their riddles. 7 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; Fools despise wisdom and instruction. The Enticement of Sinners 8 Hear, my son, your father’s instruction And do not forsake your mother’s teaching; 9 Indeed, they are a graceful wreath to your head And [b]ornaments about your neck. 10 My son, if sinners entice you, Do not consent. 11 If they say, “Come with us, Let us lie in wait for blood, Let us ambush the innocent without cause; 12 Let us swallow them alive like Sheol, Even whole, as those who go down to the pit; 13 We will find all kinds of precious wealth, We will fill our houses with spoil; 14 Throw in your lot [c]with us, We shall all have one purse,” 15 My son, do not walk in the way with them. Keep your feet from their path, 16 For their feet run to evil And they hasten to shed blood. 17 Indeed, it is [d]useless to spread the baited net In the sight of any [e]bird; 18 But they lie in wait for their own blood; They ambush their own lives. 19 So are the ways of everyone who gains by violence; It takes away the life of its possessors. Wisdom Warns 20 Wisdom shouts in the street, She [f]lifts her voice in the square; 21 At the head of the noisy streets she cries out; At the entrance of the gates in the city she utters her sayings: 22 “How long, O [g]naive ones, will you love [h]being simple-minded? And scoffers delight themselves in scoffing And fools hate knowledge? 23 “Turn to my reproof, Behold, I will pour out my spirit on you; I will make my words known to you. 24 “Because I called and you refused, I stretched out my hand and no one paid attention; 25 And you neglected all my counsel And did not want my reproof; 26 I will also laugh at your calamity; I will mock when your dread comes, 27 When your dread comes like a storm And your calamity comes like a whirlwind, When distress and anguish come upon you. 28 “Then they will call on me, but I will not answer; They will seek me diligently but they will not find me, 29 Because they hated knowledge And did not choose the fear of the Lord. 30 “They would not accept my counsel, They spurned all my reproof. 31 “So they shall eat of the fruit of their own way And be satiated with their own devices. 32 “For the waywardness of the [i]naive will kill them, And the complacency of fools will destroy them. 33 “But he who listens to me shall [j]live securely And will be at ease from the dread of evil.” Footnotes: 1.            Proverbs 1:4 Lit simple ones 2.            Proverbs 1:9 Lit necklaces 3.            Proverbs 1:14 Lit in the midst of us 4.            Proverbs 1:17 Lit in vain 5.            Proverbs 1:17 Lit possessor of wing 6.            Proverbs 1:20 Lit gives 7.            Proverbs 1:22 Lit simple ones 8.            Proverbs 1:22 Or naivete 9.            Proverbs 1:32 Lit simple ones 10.          Proverbs 1:33 Lit dwell	Proverbs 1 Introduction 1-6 These are the wise things Solomon, the king of Israel, the son of David said.  Their purpose is to teach wisdom and self-discipline, and offer understanding and insight so people can learn the disciplines of wisdom, right living, good judgment, and fairness.  These sayings also serve to teach the naive street-smarts and give young people the knowledge to succeed.   Even people who are already wise can learn a lot.  Listen and get as much wisdom as you can--the more the better; it helps you understand people’s strange ways. Warnings About Bad Influences 7-9 Knowing how things really are all starts with deep awe for the Lord; but fools turn their back on wisdom and refuse to learn.  Listen when your dad corrects you, and don’t throw away what your mama said.  Their sage advice is a precious treasure you should always cherish.   10-14 Don’t listen, son, when bad influences try to lead you astray.  If they say, “Join our scam! We’ll jump some dope, make them disappear; no one will ever know what happened.  We’ll be filthy rich and have everything we want.  Join our crew and we’ll split it right down the middle.”  15-19 Sweetheart, don’t go along.  Don’t go down that path.  All they want is violence and all they’ll find is evil.  Even a mouse knows to stay away if it sees the trap being set; but these reckless thugs set their own trap without knowing!  They hurt themselves most of all!  That’s what happens to everyone consumed by greed.  It devours you until you’re dead. The Call of Wisdom 20-23 Wisdom calls out from the streets; she preaches in every public arena.  She broadcasts it on primetime so everyone has a chance to hear: “How long’s it gonna take for you simpletons to wake up?  How long will the skeptics deny the truth and fools refuse to learn?  Heed my warning; it’s for your own good.  I'll give you the Truth; I'll bless you with the words of life. 24-27 Since I called and you didn’t answer, I reached out and you turned away, and because you ignored my advice and brutal honesty, I will laugh when you get what you deserve.  When everything falls apart and you’re suffering in desperation, I’ll be right there taunting, “I told you so!  I told you so!”  28-31 It'll be too late to call for help then;  I won't help them out.  Though they search and search, they won’t find me.  Since they hated discipline, had no respect for God, ignored my advice, and paid no attention to my warnings, they will get what they deserve.  They made their bed; now they can lie in it. 32-33 The naive die when they go the wrong way.  Careless fools are their own undoing, but those who pay attention to me will be safe and enjoy life and won't have to worry what disasters are up ahead.
New American Standard Bible (NASB) Copyright © 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977, 1995 by The Lockman Foundation	Pastor Chris’ Paraphrase of Proverbs (PCP) Copyright © 2018 by Chris Mullis

Introduction to Pastor Chris' Paraphrase of Proverbs Devotion

Introduction
There was once a man who was made the king of all Israel while he was still very young.  How was he to lead when he had no experience?  God appeared to him in a dream and asked, “What do you want me to give you?”  The young man said, “O Lord my God, I am like a little child who doesn’t know what to do.  And here I am trying to lead a kingdom.  They’re too many of them to count! Give me wisdom so I can govern them well and know the difference between right and wrong. That’s the only way I’ll be able to govern Your people.”  

God was pleased and said, “Since you asked for wisdom to govern the right way and didn’t ask for a long life or wealth or revenge against your enemies, I will grant your wish! I will give you wisdom the likes of which the world has never seen! And I will also give you something you didn’t ask for—riches and fame!  No other king in all the world will even hold a candle to you!  And you will live a long, full life!” (Adapted from 1 Kings 3:5-14)

The young man was Solomon.  He is known as the wisest man who ever lived.  His wisdom lead Israel to a period of great peace, power, and prosperity.  Word of Solomon’s wisdom spread all over the world and people came from near and far to learn from him.  Solomon accumulated vast treasures of the finest quality.  His palace was luxuriously adorned.  He built a glorious Temple to honor God--the first Jewish Temple in Jerusalem.  

Solomon lived nearly 3,000 years ago.  His palace, his temple, and all his treasures are gone--faded into history.  However, Solomon’s most important contribution--the most valuable treasure he possesed--is still available to us today.  The Book of Proverbs is a collection sayings and advice that offer practical wisdom for life.  Many of the sayings were from Solomon himself; some were from others who were inspired by him.  Solomon’s love for wisdom and focused attention to it during his reign ensured the collection and preservation of Proverbs down through the ages.  Now, the wisdom that enabled a young, inexperienced man to become the greatest king Israel had ever known is available to guide our lives.

Wisdom.  It is more precious than silver and gold.  It is a faithful guard against trouble, injury, and death.  It is a fortress of protection and a treasure of immense value.  Wisdom leads to prosperity, honor, and success.  Those who have it want even more.  Those who scorn it suffer greatly for their folly.  To have great wisdom is better than any super power you could possess.

And yet wisdom of this magnitude is not something for casual amusement.  It is not something in which to merely dabble .  To find real wisdom, one must commit their whole heart to the journey.  Proverbs says we should search for wisdom as a man searches for hidden treasure.  He knows it is there and its worth is immeasurable and its value will alter the course of his life.  He doesn’t casually search for the treasure when he has a little extra time to spare here and there.  He doesn’t think about it one moment and forget about it for most of his day.  No, he thinks about that treasure all the time and he searches for it with his whole heart as often as he can, giving it everything he has, almost consumed by the search, because he knows finding the treasure will change his life forever.  That is how one searches for wisdom in the Book of Proverbs.  In fact, Pastor Chris’ Paraphrase of Proverbs 2:1-8 says, “If you listen to what I say, child, and hold on to these truths in your heart, if you pay attention to my wisdom and really want to understand, if you beg for more insight and really try to get it, if it’s as important to you as silver, like going on a treasure hunt, then you'll get to know God and be awestruck by the Lord.  The Lord makes us wise; He gives truth and understanding.  He fills good people with dependable wisdom.  He protects the innocent and maintains the road to justice, keeping his dedicated, godly people safe.”

Are you ready to search for God’s wisdom treasure passed down through the ages by the great king, Solomon?  I hope you are and I hope you will make it a lifelong quest.  It will change your life forever.

General Themes
You are about to make a start on your lifelong treasure hunt.  It begins with this thirty-one day devotion to the search of God’s wisdom.  Our goal together will be to grow closer to God as we grow in His wisdom.  There are several general themes I have discovered in my treasure hunt through Proverbs thus far.  I summarize them for you here.

First of all, true wisdom begins with a deep reverence for the Lord.  Even the foolishness of God is wiser than the wisest wisdom of man.  The wisdom we can attain by our own means is nothing compared to what God can give.  Therefore, if we want to be truly wise, we must humble ourselves before God and honor Him as our Lord, the Lord of all.  This in itself is wisdom.  It is to recognize the true state of affairs--that He is Lord and we are His.

Second, wisdom is a willingness to listen and learn.  Those who gain true wisdom are not necessarily the smartest, most skillful, or capable people.  It is not those who have the most natural ability or highest education who gain the most wisdom.  Sometimes these things even hinder the growth of wisdom because wisdom comes to those who are patient and humbly listen and learn.  Wisdom is not something you already have within you, it is something you receive from God when you listen and learn.

Third, a huge part of wisdom is controlling yourself and your impulses.  Again and again, Proverbs teaches people to control their tongue, their anger, their appetites, and desires.  Proverbs encourages self-disciple, hard work, persistence, and long-term growth.  One must be committed to the journey and willing to put off short term gratifications and gains for the sake of something more lasting.  This is wisdom.  Those who are ruled by their desires will miss out on wisdom.

Instructions 
This thirty-one day devotional is a great way to search for the treasures of wisdom in Proverbs.  It may be used as you embark on your treasure hunt for the first time or as an aid for those who have been lifelong students of wisdom.  Let me suggest some directions as you begin this thirty-one day journey.  

There is a short devotion for each day followed by a chapter from Proverbs.  Since there are thirty-one chapters in Proverbs, it makes a great month long devotion--reading one chapter of Proverbs per day.  Begin with a short prayer to the Lord.  Wisdom all starts with a deep reverence for God.  So, pray to God.  You don’t have to use the flowery language you might have heard a preacher or some deeply spiritual person use.  Simply talk to God as you would talk to someone you truly respect.  Ask God to teach you wisdom as you read the day’s devotion and chapter.  This is how King Solomon found wisdom.  He asked God for it.

Next, read the devotion at the beginning of each section.  These are short reflections that highlight insights I gained in my reading of Proverbs each day.  They will feature a short paraphrase that caught my attention.  Perhaps they will speak to you as well.

At the end of the devotion is my prayer for the day.  You may read it as my prayer for you or you may adopt the words as your personal prayer to God.

Finally, read the daily chapter of Proverbs.  I have compiled two versions side by side in parallel.  The version in the left column is the New American Standard Bible (NASB) and is one of the most accurate word for word translations of the Bible available in modern English.  It is a very reliable translation, but it is not always the easiest to understand.  Therefore, in the right column is Pastor Chris’ Paraphrase (PCP) where I have put the chapter in my own words, which I hope are as simple and straight as possible.  I suggest you read both versions--the NASB first and then the PCP.  After reading the chapter, close with a short prayer to thank God for being with you during your devotion and/or ask Him to continue to speak to you throughout your day about any particular insight that caught your attention.

Thank You!
Thank you for deciding to read my daily devotion.  I am proud of your commitment to spend time with God each day as you search for wisdom in Proverbs.  I am grateful you chose this devotional to be your guide.  I pray God will lead you to find more of this priceless treasure.  God bless!

Preface to Pastor Chris' Paraphrase of Proverbs Devotion

Preface
My first Bible paraphrasing project was a study of Gospel passages about the birth of Christ. The Birth of Christ was so rewarding I wanted to do another. I chose the book of Proverbs for my second project for several reasons.

First of all, Proverbs is quite a bit longer and more challenging than the birth narratives of Christ. This paraphrase of Proverbs is at least eight times longer than The Birth of Christ. However, the challenge is more than just the length. The witty, symbolic, and poetic meanings in Proverbs are far more difficult to translate than the narrative stories of Christ’s birth. Yet, having already successfully accomplished the easier project, I wanted something more challenging.

Second (and most important), I need more practical wisdom in my life. Wisdom is more than education. It’s more than book knowledge. It’s far more than knowing things. Wisdom is even more than knowing right from wrong. I have known wise people who were not very intelligent (and perhaps a few who were not even very noble). Yet, a truly wise person seems to have an uncanny ability to do the right thing in the right way at the right time. Who wouldn’t want more of that kind of wisdom? Proverbs teaches it and we can grow in this wisdom as we spend time with God while we read, study, and live out the Proverbs in these pages daily.

There is a third reason I chose the book of Proverbs. The book has a nice symmetry that lends itself to daily devotion. My friend, Tom Kazniki (who has since passed away), was the first person to point out to me the symmetry in Proverbs. There are thirty-one chapters in Proverbs and thirty-one days in most months, making a natural rhythm to read one Proverb each day of the month. That was Tom’s daily devotion. I have followed his pattern as I studied Proverbs over the last year.

A Word About Translations and Paraphrases
I should add a short explanation about the difference between a Bible translation and a Bible paraphrase. A good translation starts with the most ancient and accurate copies of the biblical manuscripts available in the original languages and then carefully evaluates the differences and translates them into English (or whatever language is desired). Emphasis is on accurately translating the words and meanings of the original authors into English. A translation is far more accurate and reliable than a paraphrase. The struggle of the biblical translator is that words and phrases from ancient Hebrew, Greek, and Aramaic do not always translate directly into English. For instance, Jesus and his father Joseph are called carpenters. In the original Greek, Mark 6:3 calls Joseph a 'tekton'. A tekton is a builder, usually of houses. Most houses today are made of wood so it makes sense to translate 'tekton' as carpenter. But in Jesus day, a builder of houses usually worked in stone or mud and there wasn't much wood around with which to work. So maybe it might be better to say Jesus and Joseph were stone masons, but that doesn't really get it either. And this is just one of the easy translation problems. The work of translators can get really, really tricky. Add to this that other languages use words in different orders than the way we use them in English. For example:

• In English, the verb follows immediately after the noun.
• In German the verb at the end of the sentence comes.
• Appears the verb in Greek at the beginning of the sentence.

So, translators can't translate the Bible word for word from the original language to English or we wouldn't be able to understand it. Translators have to strike a balance between making the translation as accurate as possible and as readable as possible. Modern translations fall somewhere between two ideals. There is the word for word translation, which tries to keep everything as literal as possible and sacrifices readability for accuracy. On the other end of the spectrum is a thought for thought translation, which tries to translate the thought or idea and sacrifices word accuracy for readability and to make the passage easier to understand.

With a paraphrase, the author takes a translation of the Bible and puts it into his or her own words. The author of a paraphrase usually does not start with the Bible in its original languages--Hebrew, Greek, and Aramaic. It is more common for a paraphrase to come from an English translation that is rephrased into the author's own words. My process was to compare a passage from Proverbs in several English versions (NRSV, NASB, KJV, NLT, NIV, and YLT) and then rephrase the passage according to how I would say it in my own words. Often, I looked up the meaning of the original Hebrew words my Strong’s Concordance to better understand what I thought the author was trying to say so I could try to put that in words that make sense to us today. However, a paraphrase does not do the more difficult and scholarly work of studying all the most ancient fragments, manuscripts, and copies of the Bible that exist in their original languages and translating the Bible into English. Therefore, a paraphrase is not as accurate as a translation. A paraphrase can be helpful in seeing the Scripture from a different perspective or shedding more light on a passage, but we should never rely on a paraphrase to replace or change the meaning of a passage. A translation is just more accurate and reliable than a paraphrase in almost every aspect. Furthermore, the risk of a paraphrase is that it can introduce the author's own ideas, perspectives, theology, and bias into the Scripture.

The New Living Translation is one of my favorite translations of Scripture. I value it’s thought-for- thought style for easy reading and understanding. Furthermore, the creators of the NLT compiled an impressive and diverse team of translators to guard against theological bias into their version. However, for this project, I chose to feature the New American Standard Bible (NASB) because it is a strict word for word translation that seeks to render the original passages as literally as possible. The NASB’s translation style leads to one of the most accurate translations of the Bible, but it can also make passages more difficult to understand for the contemporary reader. The NASB was the logical choice to parallel my paraphrase. You can read a very accurate and reliable Bible translation in the left column and look to my paraphrase to shed more light in the right column.

Acknowledgments
I would like to make several acknowledgements. First of all, I want to thank my Lord, Jesus Christ, who continues to lead and speak to me as I study His Bible. His Word is alive and powerful. I am blessed every time I dig deeply into it. My journey through Proverbs has been no exception. It has brought me closer to Christ as I walked with Him through Proverbs every morning.

Second, I am thankful to the congregation of Pleasant Grove United Methodist Church. Their support enables me to earn a living as I pursue the Lord and share His guidance with as many as I can. What a blessing and privilege to do something I love and live out my calling as a child of God and a minister of the Gospel. Working as their minister gives me the time and encourages the discipline needed to complete projects like this paraphrase. I am very grateful.

I also want to acknowledge the many people who read my daily paraphrase postings on social media. Their words of affirmation spurred me on to continue and expand my work, knowing my own discoveries were an encouragement to others as well. It brought me joy to share my personal journey with a wider community of faith.

Finally, I want to acknowledge my amazing wife who’s honesty, love, and support are a deep blessing and constant encouragement. The thoughts, prayers, and paraphrases in these pages were mostly written early in the morning after we both had a cup of coffee. We would sit together on the couch of our living room together for a few minutes to start the day. Then, I would begin my study as she went to get ready for work. Dressed in her nursing scrubs, she would head off to the hospital NICU to serve her tiny little patients and their parents as I typed on the computer. She is a blessing to so many and especially to me.

The Fruit of the Spirit - Self-control

Introduction

I want to thank everyone who has followed this blog series on the Fruits of the Spirit from Galatian 5:22-23.  We started all the way back at the beginning of August!  If you’ve missed any, I invite you to go back and read them.  You can also watch videos of the sermons on my church's Facebook page at www.facebook.com/pg/pgumc.dalton/videos/.

Galatians is all about Christian freedom.  Christians have been set free from a vain religion where we try to impress God and earn His love by following a bunch of rules.  Jesus proved God's love by dying on the cross and won our freedom from sin and death.  We are free to love God as He loves us.  However, with great freedom, comes a great need for self-control.

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Galatians 5:22-23

But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!

Self-Control

Today, I want to talk about self-control.  Self-control is vital for free people.  The more freedom your have, the more self-control you need.  Think of a child.  They start out as a helpless infant.  Then something terrifying happens.  They become toddlers who know how to walk--sort of.  Suddenly, these immature, fragile beings are mobile and stumbling around.  Every table corner and sharp object threatens to smash their head or impale them as the bumble around their environment.  They are learning, but they are in danger because they have yet to learn to control their movements and their parents are terrified for them.  Parents, do you remember the first time your toddler learned how to open the front door?  It's horrifying because you know it's not safe for them to be outside alone.  They need an adult to keep them under control and safe.  Thankfully, as our children grow, they need less and less direct supervision because they are more mature and can control themselves.  Soon, they are adults who hopefully have enough self-control to live independently.  

This is a good analogy for the Christian life.  Before Christ, people needed rules and laws to babysit us and keep us safe and out of trouble so we didn't hurt ourselves or other.  Then Christ came to set us free.  Those who trust in Christ have the Holy Spirit living inside them to guide and direct them.  We have the freedom given to those who are spiritually mature.  However, with great freedom comes great responsibility.  We must have self-control to live safely in our freedom.

Self-control doesn’t mean controlling everything yourself.  There are some who just can’t let go.  They have to be in control of everything in their life.  Are you the kind of person who can’t sit in the passenger’s sit and let someone else drive?  When was the last time you let someone else plan a trip—figuring out how you are gonna get there, booking the hotel, deciding what to do while you’re there, etc.—without any input from you?  Self-control isn’t being a control freak.  Christian self-control is actually the opposite.  Christian life demands you to get out of the driver’s seat and let the Holy Spirit of God take the wheel.  That can be incredibly difficult for some people; and so sometimes the first act of self-control is controlling your own impulse to be “in control” of everything.

"Just Say No" In the 1980’s, Nancy Reagan said we should “just say no” to drugs.  It was a helpful public service campaign to bring awareness to America's growing drug problem, but it didn't solve the problem because, sometimes we just can’t say no.  Some teens are so influenced by peer pressure it is nearly impossible to just say no in certain circumstances.  Without God’s help, we are not free to “just say no.”  There’s a darkness within every human heart that just wants to say “yes” to all the wrong things.  And it doesn’t ever want to say “that’s enough” to good things when too much is bad for us.  The human soul always cries, “More! More! More!” even when more will completely destroy us.  “Just say no” was a good start, but people can’t just say no—not on our own.   We need God's help.  

The Christian life of freedom can be a tangled wilderness.  Freedom is awesome, but it is also messy.  We are free from the legalistic rules of religion that say, “You must do this and avoid that in order for God to love you.”  Instead, God’s grace tells us, “I love you regardless of any sin you ever commit.  You are welcome in my house!”  1 Peter 2:16 says, “You are free!”  but it also says, “don’t use your freedom as an excuse to do evil.”  Thankfully, God gives Christians the Holy Spirit to show us the way.  So, we must let the Holy Spirit be our careful guide as we walk this middle road through the tangled wilderness between evil self-indulgence and religious legalism.

Self-control is not just for teenagers. Adults often like to criticise teenagers for their like of self-control, but maybe we should take the log out of our own eye before we complain about the spec in the teenager's eye.  Adults need self-control even more than teenagers because we have greater freedom and usually more resources with which to indulge ourselves. With greater freedom comes a greater need for self-control.  Unfortunately, adults today seem to have so little self-control.  Cholesterol problems, high blood pressure, diabetes, and heart disease are rampant among adults in America primarily because we lack self-control.  We eat too much food and don't exercise enough.  We also struggle to control our TV and internet consumption.  We complain news outlets and social media are too negative, yet we do not limit our consumption of them to healthy doses.  And adults struggle with alcoholism and drug abuse as much or more than teenagers.  Where is our self-control?

How to Nurture Self-control
If we are going to lead healthy, godly lives, we need more self-control.  Thankfully, this is a virtue the Holy Spirit wishes to grow in us.  We cannot grow it ourselves; we must allow the Holy Spirit to grow it.  However, just like a garden, there are some things we can do to nurture the growth of self-control.  Self-control is like pruning your garden.

We have a lovely rose bush at our house.  Now, in order to have a lot of roses, you have to do something that doesn't make sense.  You actually have to prune--cut away--a good number of the rose buds before they bloom.  That just seems crazy to me.  Why would you cut off rose buds in order to get more roses?  It's because the bush can actually produce more roses if it can concentrate its limited resources on fewer buds.  So by cutting away some of the buds, the bush focuses on the few that are left and they are larger and more beautiful.

In our spiritual life, if we try to feed our every selfish desire, we grow spiritually weak and malnourished.  However, a self-sacrificing life of self-discipline, controlled by the Holy Spirit, leads to spiritual abundance and health.  Self-control takes root and grows.

Spiritual pruning, self-control, is a daily way of life gained as we walk intimately with the Lord. In Matthew 22, someone asked Jesus, “What is the greatest command?” Jesus replied, “‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ 

This is how we live to nurture the growth of self-control.  Love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.  And love your neighbor as yourself.  

First, love the Lord with all your heart—service.  1 John 4:20 says, “…if we don’t love people we can see, how can we love God, whom we cannot see?”  You have to love people in order to love God with all your heart.  So, find as many ways to serve as possible.  The local church is a great place to serve.  At my church, you can help serve food and cleanup during our Wednesday night suppers.  You could volunteer with our youth or children's programs.  You could work in the yard.  You can fix something that is broken.  You could be one of our Facebook live videographers.  The list of other service opportunities is long.  Serving helps you focus less on yourself; this is a great way to practice 'self' control.

Love the Lord with all your soul—piety. Piety is a fancy word that means spending time with God through spiritual practices.  As you become intimately acquainted with God, you worry less about yourself.  Self-control grows inside you more and more.  Some essential ways to practice piety are through prayer, worship, and Holy Communion.  

• Prayer - I encourage you to pray five times a day--in the morning when you wake, at night before you sleep, and before every meal--and also say a short prayer whenever else you think about it throughout the day.  
• Worship - We were designed to worship God and God deserves our loving thanks and praise.  I recommend you worship God with other believers every Sunday.  Try not to miss more than five Sundays per year.
• Holy Communion - Also known as "The Lord's Supper", Holy Communion is an important way Jesus told us to remember what he did for us when he died on the cross.  Furthermore, it is a sacred way God pours grace into our life and nurtures the growth our our spirit.  I recommend you celebrate Holy Communion as often as possible, but at least once a month.

Love the Lord with all your mind—study.  Through the daily discipline of study, we can nurture more self-control within.  Read your Bible prayerfully and daily.  The Lord will strengthen you mind and your spirit.  Everyone should also study together with a small group of Christian believers.  At my church, this is primarily found in a Sunday school class, Wednesday night study, or our Thursday morning Bible study.  What study groups could you join to help nurture the fruit of the Spirit, self-control?

Conclusion

If you love God with all your heart, all your soul, and all love your mind, and if you love your neighbor as yourself, you will let the Holy Spirit control your life so that you do all that you can to express that love and avoid those things that are not loving to God, your neighbor, or yourself.  The practice of these greatest commands given to us by the Lord is a great exercise in self-control.

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