Imagine how awesome Heaven will be. We will live with God forever, surrounded by perfect love. There will be no more pain or sorrow or suffering or sickness or death. All that was broken will be made whole. Our affirmatives and shortcomings will all be healed and forgiven. We will know each other perfectly--including our loved ones who died in Christ. It is a beautiful vision and it will be glorious!
15 Hearing this, a man sitting at the table with Jesus exclaimed, “What a blessing it will be to attend a banquet in the Kingdom of God!”
16 Jesus replied with this story: “A man prepared a great feast and sent out many invitations. 17 When the banquet was ready, he sent his servant to tell the guests, ‘Come, the banquet is ready.’ 18 But they all began making excuses. One said, ‘I have just bought a field and must inspect it. Please excuse me.’ 19 Another said, ‘I have just bought five pairs of oxen, and I want to try them out. Please excuse me.’ 20 Another said, ‘I just got married, so I can’t come.’
21 “The servant returned and told his master what they had said. His master was furious and said, ‘Go quickly into the streets and alleys of the town and invite the poor, the crippled, the blind, and the lame.’ 22 After the servant had done this, he reported, ‘There is still room for more.’ 23 So his master said, ‘Go out into the country lanes and behind the hedges and urge anyone you find to come, so that the house will be full. 24 For none of those I first invited will get even the smallest taste of my banquet.’”
Explain the Parable
Some of Jesus' parables are hard to understand. This one is pretty straightforward. God has prepared a feast of all good things and He invites everyone to come enjoy with Him. But when the call comes, people make excuses. They are too wrapped up in the things of this world to accept God's invitation.
But here's the thing. Few would actually reject God's invitation to the Kingdom Feast if it was obvious it was God inviting them to feast in His Kingdom. People miss out because God's invitation comes every day in a thousand small ways. I commend you all for getting up this morning to come to church. This morning, you accepted the invitation to feast in God’s Kingdom in one small way. Many people choose to do something else on Sundays besides worship the Lord. They make excuses for not going to church. They don’t realize they are excusing themselves from a feast with the King of kings. People make excuses for other things too—for not praying, not reading the Bible, not helping their neighbor.
In a thousand small ways, God invites us to feast in His Kingdom. And each time the invitation comes, we have a choice to make. Do we accept the invitation or make an excuse. Your life is a collection of millions of these small choices. And they add up. You might not notice the effect your excuses have at the time you offer them. But one day you will stand before God and look back and you will see the sum of all you did. I hope you won’t see a mountain of excuses has piled up when it should be a multitude of blessings from God.
What Do You Need to Do?
Many of you know it’s time to make a change in your life, but you're stuck. You're making excuses and it's killing you. What do you need to work on? Do you need to? Change your spiritual habits? Ask for forgiveness? Repent of sin? Exercise more? Change your eating habits? Changing careers?
Excuses are Lies
You know what you need to do. But you keep making excuses. I’m here to tell you today, all your excuses are lies. It’s the Enemy of God whispering in your ear:
- “I don’t have time.” That’s a lie. you always have time for what's really important to you.
- “I just can’t do it.” That’s a lie. With God, all things are possible.
- “I tried before and failed.” That doesn’t mean you won’t eventually succeed. Don't give up!
- “I can’t afford it.” If it’s a worthwhile goal, it’s worth spending the money. You just have to decide what’s really important to you.
- “I’m to old to start." You're never too old. There was a man at a church I once served who learned to snow ski at the age of 70 and he volunteered as a chaperone for the church's youth ski trip every winter. How old were Abraham and Sara when they had Isaac, the child God promised to give them?
Your excuses aren’t valid. It’s time to throw away all your excuses and just be honest. The Truth shall set you free—free to be all that God wants you to be, to be your very best self, to be part of God's glorious Kingdom!
Fear lies beneath many of our excuses. We lack of faith that change is really possible. Fear makes you freeze, but faith forces you to move. Have faith! Perhaps it is impossible for you, but all things are possible with God. If it looks too hard, ask God for help and He will give you someone to help. He is the God who raised Lazarus from the dead after his body had already started to decay. And He is the God who died on a cross and rose from the grave on the third day. God can do anything!
Sometimes, the obstacles to change are more than mental; they are real. That doesn't mean we can't change. We just have to find a way around the obstacle. Don’t believe the lie that it’s impossible.
If anyone has a reason to make excuses about why it's impossible to do something, it's Nick Vujicic. Nick was born without arms or legs. Doctors said Nick would never walk, yet, Nick taught himself to walk using only his hips. He went further, learning how to swim without arms or legs. Then he taught himself how to surf and went skydiving. Nick speaks in front of thousands of people every year, inspiring them to stop making excuses. Nick has learned that nothing is impossible if you apply yourself, don't give up, ask for help, and find a way around the obstacles in front of you. [Click here to watch a video of Nici Vujicic.]
Impossible is Nothing
Don’t make excuses. Find a way forward. Go over, under, or around the obstacles in your life.
Do a mental exercise: What would you do to change your life if you believed that you are able to overcome this excuse you’re making? Don’t have time? What would you do if you had all the time in the world? No money? What would you do if money wasn’t important? And if you had all the money you needed? Feeling unconfident? What would you do if you were as confident as the most positively confident person you know?break through your excuses.
Look at the facts. How much time, money, etc. would it really take to make a change? Is it really put your reach, or does it just feel out of reach?
"I don't feel like it…" Do it anyway. Your feelings come and go. Your excited and pumped one day and then you're tired and unmotivated the next. Keep doing it anyway. You made a commitment. Keep it simply for the sake of being a man (or woman) of your word. Do it, even if you don't feel like it, even if you're just going through the motions. Guess what, 9 times out of 10, the motivation and feelings come back. Now, 1 time out of 10, there might be something to that feeling, but don't give up today. Wait till tomorrow to give up. And after that, wait another day. Keep putting off giving up. Chances are, you will find the motivation you need to keep going and you'lee be glad you procrastinated giving up.
"I'm too old," you say. "It's just too late for me. I've lived my whole life like this. I just don't have enough time left to change." Don't say that. You may indeed be near the end of your life, but with Our God's grace, it's never to late. In God's grace, the past is the past. God forgives. God gives new life. You can start over today. It's never too late. I know this is true because when Jesus was dying on the cross, there was a criminal crucified next to him. As the thief was receiving the punishment he deserved, he turned to Jesus and said, "Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom." And you know what Jesus said? He said, "Today, you will be in Paradise with me." The thief had only hours (or minutes left to live) and it still wasn't too late. It's not too late for you either.
Living as a Christian takes discipline. It’s a daily discipline of worship, prayer, service, study.
Jesus gives you a tool to motivate you and help you stay disciplined.
It's the vision of the Kingdom feast. We are all gathered together around the table of the Lord. A feast of all good things is set before us. All our loved ones who died in Christ are there. Every sickness is healed. Ever broken relationship is mended. Every life is whole. There is no more death or darkness or shame or misery. All is perfect and right and at peace. And this goes on for eternity! Hallelujah!
Imagine, everyday, what it will be like when your faithful discipline pays off as we gather around the Lord's table. This grand vision is the result of the faithful Christian life lived everyday in a thousand small ways. Now, live your life doing the right thing in all those thousands of ways. What are the changes you need to make to accept the invitation to God’s Heavenly banquet? Live your life day by day, hour by hour, moment by moment working toward the grand vision.