Shopping is not for me. It’s just draining. I can work hard all day outside in the hot sun doing something I enjoy and not get tired, but I’m exhausted in less than an hour if my wife makes me go shopping.
Something similar happens when people serve in the church. You serve with more passion and dedication when you serve in ways you enjoy, but serving becomes a chore when you serve in ways God hasn’t gifted you or when you have a bad attitude.
God gives every Christian special abilities so we can serve others. A person is truly blessed when they discover their gifts and learn how to use them to serve. There is no greater joy than serving others in ways God designed you to serve. It is a double blessing because you are blessed and so are the people you serve.
However, there is another vital factor at work—your attitude. A bad attitude can spoil the blessing of any act of service—even something you normally enjoy. I sometimes see this when people serve out of a sense of obligation rather than love. People often feel guilty because they think they ought to serve in some way, but they don’t really want to or aren’t able. They may serve anyway, but they do it grudgingly. Other times people refuse to serve and resent having been asked to do something they couldn’t or wouldn’t do. Either way, there is a bad attitude afloat and it stinks worse than dirty sock left in the backseat of a hot car.
This is not the way God wants it to be. God sent His one and only Son to redeem us from guilt and shame. The last thing God wants to do is guilt us into serving. God asks us to serve so we can be part of the rich blessings He plans to give—both to those who serve and those who are served. And God wants us to serve—not because we feel we have to, but—because our heart is overflowing with love and gratitude for Christ. God gives us the freedom to decide how we serve so we can serve out of love and with a cheerful heart.
The Word of God tells us to have a cheerful heart. One verse in particular comes to mind. Although the context of this verse is financial giving, the same principle applies to our gifts of service. 2 Corinthians 9:7 – “You must each decide in your heart how much to give. And don’t give reluctantly or in response to pressure. “For God loves a person who gives cheerfully.””
I encourage you to give your time, your talents, your treasures, (everything really) with a cheerful heart. Don't miss the joy, the blessing, the wonder of cheerful service for it is a sweet, sweet aroma to the Lord. It is the way the Church was meant to be. Of course, I’m no expert and certainly don’t claim to know everything, but that’s the Truth as far as I can tell…
Remember, God loves you and so do I!