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Showing posts with label Follow Jesus. Show all posts
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Monday, August 31, 2026

Look Different | A Sermon on Matthew 5:14-16

Introduction
Long ago, God chose you to be Holy and Different. Christians are meant to Think Different, Act Different, and today I want to share that we should Look Different.  

Of all the sermons in this series, I was concerned about this one the most.  Why did God want me to talk about how Christians should look?  I thought about the different ways Christians have looked and dressed over the years.  And to make things easy, I’ve compiled picture showing how Christians can look different. Maybe you would like to choose one of these looks? 

You could choose the monastic look of the monk or the nun.





You could choose the 16-17 century clerical style of Jonathan Edwards or John Wesley.







Or maybe you would like the more contemporary look of the modern worship style.











Or you could opt for a more glamorous televangelist hairdo—what I call the "GlamorEvangelist".






Or if that's not hardcore enough, you could go with the crazy street preacher look.










Maybe we should bring back hats in church?





Or, fellas, maybe you want to go with the bearded look.  There's a handy guide for Christian beard styles…


If we really want to know how Christians should look different, let’s go to the Word of God.

Matthew 5:14-16
14 “You are the light of the world—like a city on a hilltop that cannot be hidden. 15 No one lights a lamp and then puts it under a basket. Instead, a lamp is placed on a stand, where it gives light to everyone in the house. 16 In the same way, let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your heavenly Father.

Jesus’ Fashion Advice
Jesus didn’t give much fashion advice.  He did talk about the Pharisees’ clothing once.  The Pharisees liked to dress in elaborate robes ornamented with boxes called phylacteries that held tiny scrolls of scripture.  They liked to be noticed and to look "holy," but Jesus warned they were like white washed tombs, beautiful on the outside but, on the inside, full of dead men's bones.

In the sixth chapter of Matthew, Jesus said you shouldn't worry about what you will wear; He said the lilies of the field are better clothed than anything King Solomon ever wore (and Solomon was the richest man who ever lived).

In Matthew 5:14, Jesus gives a few images of how we are to “look.”  It has more to do with our character, but it can affect the way we look too.  The images He uses are:  light, a city, and a shining lamp. 

Christians are filled with the Holy Spirit and have an inner light that shines. There’s something special about them that transcends clothing, age, or the world’s standards of beauty.  Our inner light leads us and even gives light to others, but in order for the light to shine, you have to open yourself up to the Holy Spirit. 

You have to listen to what the Spirit says and then obey—even if it's uncomfortable or challenging.  When you cooperate with the Spirit, you become more like Christ.

You can also give light to others.  Christians are called to be a witness.  Church members promise to support the church with their prayers, the presence, their gifts, their service, and their witness.  Being a witness means telling people what Jesus has done for you.  Even if you don't say anything, people see the way you live.  And if you let the Holy Spirit lead you, you will shine brightly and others will see.

There's something else about that shining inner light.  Jesus said it can't be hidden.  He said we shouldn't try to hide it any more than we would try to hide the light of a lamp. 

I'm so thankful I live in America—a land where we have the freedom to live as Christians.  It was quite dangerous for the earliest followers of Christ and it is still dangerous for many Christians who live in places like North Korea, China, Africa, and Pakistan today.  Many Christians have to worship in secret and try to keep their faith hidden.  Can you imagine the burden of that?  How do you keep your faith in Christ secret when it causes you to shine like a lamp or a city on a hill? 

I'm so glad Christians in America don't have to hide our light.  And I think we ought to try and shine as brightly as we can in honor and memory of those who didn't have this privilege.  How dare we disrespect those who suffer for Christ by taking our shining privileges for granted?

Christians Gather Together
I’ve never been a big city kind of person.  I think I’m truly a country man at heart.  I love the peace and quiet.  I like my privacy.  I don’t want to be right up on my neighbors.

But Jesus said Christians are like a city on a hill.  Cities are a place where lots and lots of people gathering together.  And that tells you something about how Christians look.  Christians gather together in groups. 

You can't have a city with just one person and there are no solitary Christians.  Christians must come together.  Think of the two most important ceremonies in the Christian Church.  The two sacraments Jesus commanded His followers to practice are Baptism and Communion.  You don’t practice either of them by yourself.  You get together with other believers to experience them. 

Christians look different because we are always gathering together with other to worship, to study, to serve, to grow, to hold one another accountable, and to just share life. 

Christians Have Scars
Last week, I shared I have this old truck I call "Dry Bones."  It used to be a dump truck.  They say farm trucks live a hard life, but the life of a dump truck is just brutal! 

You can see the scars from that tough life in the rust that covers Dry Bones.  But it's the rusty old worn-out look that I like most about Dry Bones. 
It reminds me so much of the Christian life.

Jesus comes to us when we are broken and beat down by the consequences of our sin.  He loves us, despite our ugliness, and He redeems us and gives us a new life.  That's what I think about when I see my Dry Bones truck.  It was just a worn out dump truck, discarded and forgotten, but I'm bringing it back to life and making it cool.  People stop me all the time and tell me, "Man, I really love that old truck."  And they love it, not because it's shiny and new.  They love it because it’s rusty and worn-out.

Dry Bones is a good picture for how Christians look different.  Christians have scars.  Even Jesus had scars.  In fact, the risen Christ often showed people His scars to prove it was really Him.  "Look," He would say, "Here are the scars where the nails pierced my hands.  Here is where the spear pierced my side."  Jesus scars are not an ugly thing anymore.  Now, they are a badge of honor that shows what He did for us--how much He loves us.  

Christians have scares too—scars inflicted by the sins of others and some we caused ourselves.  But a scar is not a live wound.  It is a wound that has healed.  And if Jesus is healing you (that’s who Christians are—people Christ has healed and/or is healing)—you will have the scars to prove it. 

And your scars aren't an ugly thing; they are a badge of honor that glorifies God and shows what Christ has done for you.  Don't be afraid to show your scars—to say, "Here.  Here is where Christ healed me from sin."  Our scars tell our story.

Two More Scriptures for Christian Fashion
Before I close, let me share a couple more scriptures about how Christians should dress.

Luke 12:35Be dressed for service and keep your lamps burning, as though you were waiting for your master to return from the wedding feast.

1 Peter 5:5And all of you, dress yourselves in humility as you relate to one another, for “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”

So, be dressed for service and dress yourself in humility.  That's your Christians fashion advice. 

Conclusion
Remember, God chose you long ago to be different, to be holy.   God chose you to think different, act different, and to look different. 

You should be like a city on a hill, shining for all the world to see so they may glorify God. 
Are you ready to look different?

Monday, May 4, 2026

The Great Commission | A Sermon on Matthew 28:16-20

Introduction
If you could have any superpower, what would it be?  What would you do with it?  I asked people on Facebook and here’s what they said:

  • Patience
  • Time travel - so I could hit all my grandchildren’s ballgames and not have to choose!
  • The ability to heal - both yourself and others
  • Omniscience - to be all knowing
  • The power/charisma to convince people
  • Ultimate faithfulness to be able to turn all concerns to Jesus and accept his Will unconditionally with Praise and Glory to God.
  • Teleportation
  • Invisibility
  • The ability to fly
  • be to cure cancer
  • be to instill love and compassion into every person’s heart
  • to be able to duplicate themselves
  • Ask powerful questions that helped people reflect on how much they are loved by God such that their character would manifest the fruit of the Spirit
  • To ensure that no children go to bed hungry

In our passage today, Jesus says He has been given a super power:  all authority in heaven/earth; then He tells what He wants to do with it.

Matthew 28:16-20
16 Then the eleven disciples went to Galilee, to the mountain where Jesus had told them to go. 17 When they saw him, they worshiped him; but some doubted. 18 Then Jesus came to them and said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20 and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”

“…but some doubted
Before we talk about Jesus' authority and what He wants to do with it, I want to point out the first thing that grabbed me in this passage because I think it’s really important.  It says they worshipped Jesus, but some doubted.  They are with the risen Jesus, in the flesh, but some still doubted.  

That amazes to me! Then I realize I have also personally seen Jesus do some amazing things. 
He has provided for me – out of a broken, impoverished home; and I'm still here when many of my friends didn't make it.  God granted me a beautiful wife.  He helped me raise three successful kids.  He saw me through 25 years of ministry - ordination, ministry struggles (staff changes, addictions, fires, floods, disaffiliation).  God has been with me through all of this, yet sometimes I still doubt.

So, if you sometimes doubt, don’t beat yourself up.  Jesus still loves you whether you are brimming with confidence or struggling or just hanging on trying to believe.  And Jesus still gives you a mission.  The mission is based on His authority, not our certainty.   Jesus says, “ I am with you always…”

Authority
Now let’s talk about Jesus’ authority.  What would you do if you had “all authority in heaven and on earth”?  Jesus had all authority.  He could have used it to make people bow down to Him, to serve Him, to build His throne.  He even could have used His power and authority to snap HIs fingers and fix the whole world all by Himself in an instant.  But he didn’t.

Jesus chose to use His authority to commission us.  Rather than doing something all by Himself, He gives us the honor of doing it with Him.  He must have done that for a very important reason, because we’re idiots!  So, there must be something about the God of Heaven and Earth inviting His children to get involved that’s really important.  I think it is part of the healing process for us to help God in His work to save our world.

How do you use your influence?  Do you use it to control?  Protect yourselves?  Elevate yourselves?  Do you use it selfishly or do you use it to empower others?  Jesus used His authority to empower us to do something.  What exactly did He empower us for?

Verses 19-20 tell us we are to make disciples, baptize, and teach.  Let’s look at each of these.  We are to make disciples.  This is the main command but do we know what it means?  It doesn’t just mean to win converts, gain new church members, or get people to attend church.  We’re called to make disciples.


We are called to make disciple.
A disciple is a follower of Jesus.  
A disciple is someone who learns from Jesus.  
A disciple is someone who begins to live like Jesus.  
And a disciple is someone who makes disciples



Jesus also told us to baptize.
Jesus also commissioned us to baptize people.  Baptism publicly identifies a person with Christ.  It says, they are a member of God’s family.  

Way back in the Old Testament, God called Abraham to leave his home and go to a promised land he would show him.  And God said He would make Abraham the father of a great nation that would be God's special chosen people.  And God told Abraham that every child should be circumcised at 8-days old.  Circumcision would be the sign that they were God's chosen people.  Them, in the New Testament, the Apostle Paul said baptism is the new circumcision--the sign that Christians are God's people.

It is our tradition in the Methodist Church to baptize our children to claim them for Christ—to say they are part of the family of God.  When they grow up, they choose Christ for themselves.  Ultimately, we baptize people because, someone who is baptized has a new identity in Christ.  People today identify themselves in all kinds of ways:  parent, American, a Georgia bulldog fan, introvert/extrovert, etc. You can be all those things, but Christ should be your primary identifier.  Baptism is the moment we say, ‘I belong to Jesus now.’

Jesus said: “Teach Them..”
Jesus commissioned us to teach people to obey everything He commanded.  We’re not just teaching them about Jesus, because knowing information about Jesus is not the same as following Jesus.  We’re to teach people to obey Jesus’ commands.

What Jesus commissioned His followers to do is like raising a child.  Think about it.  We’re called to bring people into God’s family and then teach them how to live.  Then, they go out and bring more people into God’s family and teach them how to live.

If we’re not helping people grow in Christ, then we’re not fully doing what Jesus called us to do. 

Holy Communion
So, here we are.  Some us worship.  Some of us doubt.  We do both at different times--and sometimes a the same time!  Jesus doesn’t wait for perfect faith.  He doesn’t hold back His mission.  He speaks with all the authority of  Heaven and Earth and He commissions us to make disciples, to baptize, to teach.

But before we go out into the world to serve, to try and live out this calling, Jesus invites us to come to Him.  Because it begins with what Jesus has already done for us.  

One of the most sacred ways He reminds us what He’s done is Holy Communion.  At this table:

  • We remember His sacrifice
  • We receive His grace
  • We experience His presence

And I would remind you something we’ve learned today: 
this invitation isn’t just for people with strong faith. 
It’s also for those who still have questions and doubts.

So today, if you have confidence—come.
If you have doubts—come.
If you long to believe—come.
Because Jesus meets us right here in all of these.

The same Jesus who said, ‘Go and make disciples,’ also says,
‘Come to the table.  Taste and see.’

 

Monday, April 27, 2026

Breakfast with Jesus | A Sermon on John 21:1-14

Introduction
When I think back on my life, I’ve spent a lot of time around water.  I was born in North Beach, Maryland, and lived two blocks from the Chesapeake Bay.  Some of my earliest memories are of my family walking down to the beach to swim.  I can still remember the smell of the water-soaked creosote beams of the wooden pier that extended out into the bay where people would catch fish and blue crab. 

Later we moved to Macon, Georgia where my dad ran the concession stands at Lake Tobesofkee.  Part of his business was a small marina with a dock and 2 gas pumps where boats would fill their tanks for day out on the lake.  

My dad needed something to occupy me while he ran the marina.  So he taught me how to catch brim off the dock with a cane pole by using stale bread.  I would roll up a little do ball and stick in on the hook.  It would only stay on a few seconds, but that's all you needed to catch the hundreds of small, hungry brim that congregated around the dock.

I tell you all this because today we have a lake story for our Scripture reading. 

John 21:1-14
1 Later, Jesus appeared again to the disciples beside the Sea of Galilee.[a] This is how it happened. 2 Several of the disciples were there—Simon Peter, Thomas (nicknamed the Twin),[b] Nathanael from Cana in Galilee, the sons of Zebedee, and two other disciples.

3 Simon Peter said, “I’m going fishing.”

“We’ll come, too,” they all said. So they went out in the boat, but they caught nothing all night.

4 At dawn Jesus was standing on the beach, but the disciples couldn’t see who he was. 5 He called out, “Fellows,[c] have you caught any fish?”

“No,” they replied.

6 Then he said, “Throw out your net on the right-hand side of the boat, and you’ll get some!” So they did, and they couldn’t haul in the net because there were so many fish in it.

7 Then the disciple Jesus loved said to Peter, “It’s the Lord!” When Simon Peter heard that it was the Lord, he put on his tunic (for he had stripped for work), jumped into the water, and headed to shore. 8 The others stayed with the boat and pulled the loaded net to the shore, for they were only about a hundred yards[d] from shore. 9 When they got there, they found breakfast waiting for them—fish cooking over a charcoal fire, and some bread.

10 “Bring some of the fish you’ve just caught,” Jesus said. 11 So Simon Peter went aboard and dragged the net to the shore. There were 153 large fish, and yet the net hadn’t torn.

12 “Now come and have some breakfast!” Jesus said. None of the disciples dared to ask him, “Who are you?” They knew it was the Lord. 13 Then Jesus served them the bread and the fish. 14 This was the third time Jesus had appeared to his disciples since he had been raised from the dead.

A Lesson About Mission (Making Disciples)
Over the centuries, the meaning of this passage has been interpreted many ways.  But today, the Lord has given me 4 primary lessons to share with you.  

The first lesson is about what followers of Jesus are supposed to do.  Peter was a fisherman.  When Jesus first found Peter, he was in a boat & hadn’t caught any fish.  Jesus performed a miracle and Peter caught so many fish it almost sank the boat.  Then, Jesus said “Come follow me and I’ll teach you to “fish for people”.

In our story today, Jesus reenacted Peter’s calling.  Again, the Disciples are in the boat and haven’t caught anything all night.  The resurrected Christ comes along and  says, “He fellas!  Have you caught anything?”  “Nope.”  “Well, throw your nets on the other side!”   And when they do, they have miraculous success, just like they did the first time Jesus called them to follow Him and be fishers of men. 

Through this miracle, Jesus reminds the Disciples and us what we’re supposed to do.  Jesus called us to fish for people.  What are you known for?  Are you a fisherman?  Are you a lake person?  Are you a teacher, a nurse, an electrician, a mother, a father?  You may be all these and more, but if you are a follower of Jesus, you are called to invite people to follow Jesus.

Stark Methodist is known for a lot of things:  chicken stew, River of Life, Lovin’ Lunches, and so many other caring ministries.  But all these wonderful ministries are meant to be avenues for us to fulfill our true mission:  to make Disciples of Christ who worship passionately, love extravagantly, and witness boldly.

A Lesson in Dependence
Another important lesson this story teaches is a lesson in dependence.  Peter, James, and John were experienced fishermen.  But even the best fishermen can get skunked.  But when Jesus shows up, an unlucky night for the Disciples turns into a net full of abundance.  Jesus presence ensured miraculously abundance.

When it comes to the mission of the Church—to fish for people/to make disciples—we cannot do it on our own.  We need Jesus.  Walking closely with Him brings success.

Sometimes, we focus so much on what we do and how we do it.  We’re like the fishermen who master all the right fishing techniques but still come up with empty nets.  Then Jesus comes along—a carpenter, not a fisherman—and He says something really annoying like:  “throw your nets on the other side of the boat”.  (What does a carpenter know about fishing?)  But when we listen, all of a sudden our nets are so full we can’t pull them in.

If you spend more time recognizing the presence of Jesus, listening to His voice, and staying in tune with Him, then you will experience more of the miraculous abundance that comes when you  walk closely with Him.

Fellowship with the Risen Christ
But don’t think following Christ only about work.  Walking with Jesus is a joy!

And that’s why I love another aspect of this story.  It gives us a picture of Jesus and the Disciples simply enjoying breakfast together.  The Disciples have lost their way of life.  They know Jesus is still alive (they’ve already seen Him twice), but they don’t know what to do with themselves because their lives and routines have changed after the resurrection.

Isn’t that the way it feels sometimes when you lose some close to you?  You know they are alive in heaven, but you miss them and you miss living life with them. I bet the Disciples felt like that.  They know Jesus is alive, but it doesn’t feel like He’s there with them telling them what to do. 

Then Jesus comes along and they know it’s Him, and He says, “Come, eat some breakfast.”  And He reminds them that He is with them.  And He reminds them of what they’ve always done.  They enjoy life together.  They eat, they laugh, they live a joyful life together.

Oh!  What would you give to just eat some breakfast again with someone you love who’s gone?  This, in some way, is the glory of living in the Kingdom of Heaven.  It’s not just a place we go to when we die.  It’s a Kingdom we start living in now the moment we say yes to Jesus.

Jesus is with us now—walking with us, eating breakfast with us, living life with us.  And we believe in the “communion of saints”—that we are in fellowship with all the saints who have gone on to be with the Lord.  Hebrews 12:1 says we are surrounded by “a great cloud of witnesses” of the saints who’ve gone before us.  And you get the picture of a crowd of people cheering us on as we run our race of Christ.

So, this story in John 21 reminds us, we are not alone.  Jesus is with us.  The saints are with us.
And there can be joyful fellowship—even as we do the ordinary things of life, like eat breakfast.

Physical Resurrection
Finally, John's story shows us something powerful about what happens after we die.  We have physical and live in physical world.  This story is full of physical elements.  Imagine the sights and sounds of it. 

The disciples are in a boat, fishing.  Can you hear the water lapping against the hull?  Can you feel the chill on the air as the first rays of sunrise break through?  How about the smell of the charcoal fire burning on the beach as Jesus cooks fish for breakfast?  Imagine how the cool sand felt between Peter’s toes as he walked up to join Jesus.  

And Jesus and all the Disciples eat together.  Now that may seem insignificant, but it tells us that after we die, we aren’t just spirits floating around playing harps.  Jesus had a physical body—He cooked, ate, wore clothes, spoke and was heard by the people He loved.  And He knew them and they recognized Him.

If you want to know what eternal life is like, this story of the resurrected Jesus is a clue.  Jesus, resurrected, represents what we will all experience when we rise to eternal life like He did.  There will be eating, dancing, fishing, and we will have a body to experience it all.

But not a broken, corrupted body like the one we have now.  It will be perfect.  John Wesley, the founder of Methodism, believed our resurrected bodies would be real, recognizable, and physical—but no longer weak, broken, or dying.  You’ll no longer have get tired.  You’ll have ears that hear perfectly and eyes that see everything with full clarity.  We will have an increased ability to experience pleasure, beauty, and delight and live in a world more vivid because it is no longer broken. 

Closing Invitation
So, if you want to experience this glorious resurrection to eternal life promised to Christ’s followers, then I pray you will make a decision to follow Jesus.  Surrender your life to Him.

Not just part of your life—all of it.  Your plans, your identity, your future—place it in His hands.

Because this story reminds us of something very important:  Jesus isn’t just preparing a place for you someday, He’s inviting you into a relationship with Him today.

He’s standing on the shore of your life right now calling out to you: 
“Come… and have breakfast.”  Come and know Me.  Come and walk with Me.
Come and trust Me.  Come and live life with Me.

And for those of you who already follow Jesus, maybe you’ve been out in the boat for a while, working hard, doing your best.  But if you’re honest, the nets have felt empty.  Maybe you’ve been trying to do life—or even ministry—on your own strength.  This morning, Jesus is calling you back too.  Listen for His voice.  Trust His direction.  Walk closely with Him again.  Because when Jesus is there, empty nets don’t stay empty.

The same Jesus who cooked breakfast on the shore… is inviting you to walk with Him today—and dine with Him forever.