Donate to Support

Support the church that supports this blog. Donate at - www.PleasantGrove.cc Click the donate button in the upper righthand corner.
Showing posts with label High School. Show all posts
Showing posts with label High School. Show all posts

Thursday, May 15, 2025

A Message for Graduates and Everyone - 2025

My youngest child is graduating from high school.  
Graduation is an exciting milestone. You’re stepping into your own life—making choices, living your values, deciding who you want to be. And while this message is for our graduates, it’s also for all of us, because we’re all charting our path or recalibrating our direction from time to time.

I’m 51 now. I may feel the aches of age, but I still remember sitting where our graduates are—on the edge of something new. The year I graduated high school was also the year I started dating my wife. That one decision shaped so much of who I am today. Moments like graduation set us on paths that echo for a lifetime.

Don’t Be a Fool
In Luke 12:13-21, Jesus shares a parable about a rich man who stored up his wealth and planned to “eat, drink, and be merry,” not realizing his life would end that very night. Jesus warns, “A person is a fool to store up earthly wealth but not have a rich relationship with God.”

Graduates, and anyone just getting started: you may not have much money yet, and that’s okay. What matters most is that you walk with God. Even when it feels like you’re on your own, your family, your church, and your Lord are with you.

The rich man’s mistake wasn’t success, it was selfishness. He forgot about the people who helped him during hard times. When he had plenty, he thought only of himself. Jesus reminds us: life is not measured by what we own. When our time comes, we leave it all behind. What lasts is our relationship with God and how we loved others.

Be Generous
Proverbs 11:25 says, “The generous will prosper; those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed.”

As you begin your adult life, practice generosity. One powerful way to do that is through tithing—giving 10% of your income to God through the church.

Start while you have little. If you earn $10, giving $1 may not seem like much, but it forms a habit. Later, when you're blessed with more, you’ll already be a faithful giver. Tithing not only supports your church—it strengthens your trust in God and keeps your heart focused on His Kingdom, not just your own success.

Tithing helps you guard against greed and reminds you: "It’s not all about me." It’s a spiritual discipline that builds your faith and blesses your church, your community, and your soul.

Trust God
The years right after high school are the most formative of your life. You’ll make decisions about school, career, relationships, maybe even parenthood. You’ll need God’s guidance like never before.

Sadly, these are also the years when many people drift away from the church. I urge you—don’t drift. Dig in. Stay connected to God and His people.

Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.” That’s a promise for graduates—and for all of us.

When the COVID-19 pandemic shut down in-person worship in 2020, our church worried how we’d survive. But God proved faithful. People gave generously. We even ended the next two years with a surplus. Rather than store it away, we launched Operation Mercy Drops, giving monthly $1,000 grants to people in need. God has used it to bless many—and to bless us for giving.

You never know how much good can come from trusting God, being faithful, and giving generously.

Recalibrate
In the book One Man’s Wilderness, a man living off the grid in Alaska realized his watch had drifted off time. He had to recalibrate. Sometimes, we do too.

Maybe you had clear goals when you were young. Are you still on the right path? Have you drifted? A little drift over time can lead far off course. Take time to pause, pray, and ask God to get you back on track.

And if you’ve never done it before, today’s a perfect day to say yes to Jesus and follow Him.

Whether you’re just starting out or years down the road, the message is the same:
Build a rich relationship with God, be generous, and trust the Lord in all you do.

Wednesday, May 4, 2016

The Truth As Far As I Can Tell... Graduation

            My son Gavin will pass another milestone this month.  He will graduate from high school.  In fact, we have six of our youth from our church graduating from high school—Nikki Hollis, Julia McDonald, Gavin Mullis, Kyle Roberts, Max Wilson, and Tiffany Crawford.  My how time flies!  It seems like just yesterday that Gavin was learning to walk.  I’m so proud of Gavin and all our young people who have grown into fine young men and women.
            The next few years will be tremendously exciting and formative for our graduates.  They will become more independent, making the majority of their decisions for themselves.  I pray that the faith and values we have taught them together at PGUMC will guide their whole life and especially in the next decade as they experience the tremendous transformation of the young adult years.
            If I could offer one final bit of advice for our graduates, it would be the wisdom of Proverbs 3:5-6:
Trust in the Lord with all your heart;
    do not depend on your own understanding.
Seek his will in all you do,
    and he will show you which path to take.
 

            This is true wisdom for all of us.  So much of life is beyond our understanding.  Even what we do grasp is only a partial picture.  We do not know what the next day may bring or all that God is doing through our current circumstances.  It is often only after many years that we are able to look back in retrospect and glimpse what God was doing. 
Therefore, as we progress through life, the most important thing is to follow God’s will for us the best we know how.  We must walk by faith—trusting in the Lord.  Since we cannot understand it all, we must have faith that God has a master plan as we step through each door He opens for us.  If we seek His will above all else, God will open up the right doors for us.
We do not yet know what our life will be.  However, if we trust in the Lord with all our heart and don’t depend on our own understanding, if we seek His will in all we do, He will show us the way.  And maybe one day, we will reflect back on our life and see the beautiful journey we walked with God and our hearts will smile.  Of course, I’m no expert and I certainly don’t claim to know everything, but that’s the Truth as far as I can tell…
 
God loves you and so do I!