Everyone who believes in Jesus Christ has the Holy Spirit of God living inside them.
The Holy Spirit is a powerful force. It is the very power of God that was with God and was God creating the universe filled with trillions upon trillions of stars and planets and galaxies—so much that it would take you 27.4 billion years to travel from one side of it to the other if you could travel at the speed of light.
And when you have faith in Christ, the power of God’s Spirit takes up residence in your soul and begins to work His creative power in your life. However, our powerful God is not a monster or a tyrant. He will not force change upon you—even though He knows it’s for your own good. He only grows change within you as you cooperate with His love and nurture the spiritual fruit He wishes to give you. Like a garden—when tended and nurtured—the Fruit of the Spirit grows steadily within you until you reap a bountiful harvest. The Apostle Paul wrote:
22 But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!
I want to talk to you about faithfulness today. According to Wikipedia: “Faithfulness is the concept of unfailingly remaining loyal to someone or something, and putting that loyalty into consistent practice regardless of extenuating circumstances. It may be exhibited by a husband or wife who, in a sexually exclusive marriage, does not engage in sexual relationships outside of the marriage.” However, when we speak of faithfulness—as a fruit of the Holy Spirit—we are speaking of faithfulness in a relationship that is even higher than that of marriage. We are primarily focused on faithfulness to God through Jesus Christ. Our faithfulness to God leads us also to be faithful in all our other relationships, because doing so is an expression of our faithfulness to the Highest Power.
Before we were ever faithful, God was faithful to us. He created us with the purpose of sharing His love—of living a life in loving relationship with God and each other. Boy have we messed that one up. The history of humanity has been a continual history of turning our backs on God and each other. Yet God has been faithful to us, even when we have been totally unfaithful to Him. Ultimately, God sent His own Son, Jesus Christ, in love to reconcile us to Him. Yet we were unfaithful and murdered the Son of God on a cross. Yet still, God didn’t turn His back on us. Christ rose on the third day and continues to offer God’s love and forgiveness to all who repent of their sin, turn to God, and trust in Christ. Through faith we have eternal life—but we have something even greater; we have a living, loving relationship with the God of the universe who is always faithful and challenges us to be faithful.
Faithfulness in Uncertainty
God calls us to remain faithful even when we don’t understand. Faith, almost by definition, implies a degree of uncertainty. We sometimes use expressions like "taking a leap of faith" to describe faithful obedience. We even use a simple exercise to demonstrate faith—a trust fall—where you close your eyes and fall backwards into the arms of a colleague you trust (it can be an unnerving experience). Faith implies that we don’t have all the answers, that sometimes we are walking through life in the dark and cannot see the way, but we are trusting in God’s faithfulness to get us through. Even when we hurt, even when losses come that are too deep to fathom, even when we don’t understand and just want to give up, faithfulness means we just keep trusting God and walking through the darkness towards His voice.
We don’t have all the answers, but we do have some; we have enough to get started and we will get enough as we walk to continue walking the road of faith. There are many who read the Bible and lament, "I don’t understand it." It is true that there are many things in God’s Word that are very hard to understand. However, there are also many things we read that are very clear and it’s not the things I don’t understand about the Christian life that disturb me most. I am far more disturbed by the things I do understand. For then I feel the Holy Spirit convicting me: “Will you be faithful? Will you obey? Will you do what you know you should do?"
The Faithfulness of a Church Member
In the United Methodist Church, we try to spell out the ways we promise to be faithful to God when someone decides to become a member of the church. Many feel church membership is no longer important. "Why should I join as a member of a church?" They say, "Isn't that like joining a club? It sounds so exclusive!" And our culture reflects this devaluing of church membership more and more. It mirrors the general aversion to commitment that runs throughout our society. People ask some of the same kinds of questions about marriage. "Why should I get married?" They ask. And for all practical purposes, it seems they have a point. In our times, an unmarried couple can do just about everything a married couple can. They can fall in love, live together, have sex, have and raise children together. So many ask, why should they bother with marriage? I would argue marriage is essential. Here's why. Through marriage, a man and a woman stand before God and witnesses and promise to love each other for better or worse, in sickness and in health, for richer for poorer, until death. And until you make those promises to each other, the relationship can only go so far. Until your partner knows that you are all in, 100%, completely committed to the very end, your relationship cannot go to the deepest levels.
And much the same is true of church membership. You can attend a church and never become a member. For most practical purposes, you will look and act just like a member. You can attend, worship, sing in the choir, volunteer, and even serve in some official positions. However, your relationship with God and the other members of the church can only go so far until you fully commit. Until you stand before God and the whole church and promise to be 100%, all in, sold out to the mission of the church, you can only go so deep. And so, I encourage everyone who really wants to go to the deeper levels in their spiritual journey to prayerfully consider joining a church as a member.
The very first step to becoming a member of my church Pleasant Grove United Methodist church) is to become a Christian. You cannot be a member of our Church unless you are a Christian—meaning you have repented of your sins and placed your whole faith Jesus Christ, the Son of God, for your salvation. So we ask potential church members some questions in front of the whole church to help them profess their faith in Christ. We ask:
- Do you renounce the spiritual forces of wickedness, reject the evil powers of this world, and repent of your sin?
- Do you accept the freedom and power God gives you to resist evil, injustice, and oppression in whatever forms they present themselves?
- Do you confess Jesus Christ as your Savior, put your whole trust in his grace, and promise to serve him as your Lord, in union with the church which Christ has opened to people of all ages, nations, and races?
Local Church Membership
Having become a member of God’s “Holy Catholic” Church (that is the universal church that is made up of all believers in Christ from all places and in all times), now one makes a commitment to be faithful to a local congregation of the church. So we ask potential members a few more questions about how they will be faithful to the local congregation. We ask: "As members of this congregation, will you faithfully participate in its ministries by your prayers, your presence, your gifts, your service, and your witness?"
Are you faithful to pray? I recommend everyone should pray five times a day. Say a prayer to start your day when you wake up and a prayer before you go to sleep. That's two prayers. Add to this a prayer to bless your food before every meal (which for most is three times a day) and you have five prayers. But don't stop at just five prayers. Live a live of prayer. Throughout your day, say a breath prayer whenever you think about it (a breath prayer is a short prayer you can say in one breath). So as you are sitting in traffic, aggravated by the person in front of you for going too slow, breathe out, "Lord Jesus help me to be patient." As you pass an accident on the side of the road, pray, "Father, please help that person who is hurt." When someone asks you to pray for their mother who is having surgery on Tuesday, right then as they are asking in your own mind pray "Holy Spirit, take care of their mother this Tuesday during her surgery." In this way, you can be more faithful to pray.
Are you faithfully presence at church? We need to be together with other Christians for worship, study, fellowship, and service. This is best done in a local congregation. Do you attend church weekly. My own practice and what I encourage everyone to adopt is to miss no more than five Sundays of worship per year. Does that seem excessive? I don't think it is. Last week I was talking with a South Korean pastor who explained that Christians in Korea have church 7 days a week. On work days, thousands of Christians come in to the sanctuary as early as 5:00 AM for an hour long prayer service before they go to work. It's no wonder that a great revival is taking place in South Korea, home of the largest Christian church in the world--Yoido Full Gospel Church--with 480,000 members.
Are you faithful in your giving? The biblical standard is to offer 10% of your income God through the local church. So if you earn $30,000 per year, you would give $3,000 to the church each year. The church in America struggles to do all the good God calls us to do because we simply don't have the funding we need. That problem would be instantly solved if every Christian would simply be faithful to give the tithe. Maybe you are willing to jump straight into tithing. But could you grow more faithful in your giving? If you are only giving 1% right now, could you be more faithful to give 2-3%? make it a goal to grow a little bit every year until you reach 10%. And if you are already giving 10%, don't just sit back and fold your arms and say, "I've given all I need to give." What was Jesus' standard for giving? He said give it all. Remember, he said if some ask you to carry their back for a mile, go an extra mile with them. If someone demands your coat, give them your shirt also. That sounds a lot like 100% giving to me. Now, what you give is between you and God. And no one at my church--me or anyone else--is going down the list checking to see who gives what or ranking people by their giving status. That's between you and God and our church is all about grace. Jesus doesn't want your money. He wants your heart. For where your heart is, there your treasure will be also. I just want to encourage you to be faithful in your giving.
Are you faithful to serve. Some people think, "Well I give a lot of money so I don't have to serve." Members who join Pleasant Grove UMC promise to do both. It's not either or; it's both and. Faithful members give and serve. So remember the words of Galatians 6:9, "So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up."
Are you a faithful witness? A witness is simply someone who tells what Jesus has done for them. A witness invites others to come and see what Jesus is doing in there church. Are you a faithful witness? How many people have you talked to about Jesus? How many have you invited to church this year? If you haven't invited anyone, what does that say about the faithfulness of your witness?
Repentance and Call to Faithfulness
If we are honest, we all see how we have fallen short in many of the areas in which we promise to be faithful. It breaks my own heart to think of the ways I fall short and fail God who has been so faithful to me. In particular, I struggle in the area of faithful prayer. Don't get me wrong, I pray all the time, because I am a pastor. I pray several times during the Sunday worship service. I pray to open Bible studies, Sunday school classes, in prayer meetings, and with those who are sick or in the hospital. Where I struggle is in praying when I am not operating as a pastor. I think it's because I pray so much on other occasions. I just get tired. However, I have asked the Holy Spirit to help me be more faithful in this area of my life and I'm working on it.
How about you? Can you be honest with yourself and God? Can you confess where you have not been as faithful as you should? Do you faithfully renounce the spiritual forces of wickedness, reject the evil powers of this world, and repent of your sin? Do you faithfully accept the freedom and power God gives you every day to resist evil, injustice, and oppression in whatever forms they present themselves ? Do you confess Jesus Christ as your Savior, put your whole trust in his grace, and serve him as your Lord? Are you faithful pray, be present at church, to give, serve, and be faithful witness?
Perhaps God is calling you repent today. Maybe you need to commit your life to Christ and becoming a Christian for the very first time. Maybe you need to find a local church where you can join and become a faithful member. Maybe you need to admit that you have not been faithful to the membership promises you’ve already made.
Even when we are unfaithful, God is still faithful. In 1 John 1:9 it says, “But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness.” Perhaps today, you would like to pray the following confession to God and ask the Holy Spirit to help you be more faithful.
Prayer of Confession
"Most merciful God, I confess that I have sinned against you in thought, word, and deed, by what I have done, and by what I have left undone. I have not loved you with my whole heart; I have not loved my neighbors as myself. I am truly sorry and I humbly repent. For the sake of your Son Jesus Christ, have mercy on me and forgive me; that I may delight in your will, and walk in your ways, to the glory of your name. Amen."
And now, I offer this prayer on your behalf:
Almighty God have mercy on you, forgive all your sins through our Lord Jesus Christ, strengthen you in all goodness, and by the power of the Holy Spirit keep you in eternal life. Amen.