I have odd question to ask. It is an especially odd way to start a sermon on what Jesus said about how to pray. Here’s the question: Is there anyone here an expert on Dolly Parton?
I am not an expert on Kenny Rogers nor
have I ever met him. I have never even
been to a Rogers concert. I only know 2
or 3 songs Kenny Rogers sang. But, I did
dress up like Kenny Rogers once. But do
you think that qualifies me as a Dolly Parton “expert”? Absolutely not!
Well, what does this have to do
with Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount and prayer.
I’m glad you asked! Part of the fun of
Halloween is being able to dress up like a character and pretend to be
something or someone you’re not. The reason I mention this is pretending to be something you are not is also the definition of a hypocrite.
Matthew 6:5
5 “When you pray, don’t be like the hypocrites who love to pray publicly on street corners and in the synagogues where everyone can see them. I tell you the truth, that is all the reward they will ever get.
Actors and actresses portray characters—sometimes so believable it’s amazing! But just because an actor plays a doctor on TV, that doesn’t mean you should
take his medical advice! An actor takes
the stage to play a role to entertain.
Their reward is the crowd’s applause.
In Jesus day, the religious leaders liked to put on a show by praying out loud in public. It was a great honor to be asked to pray in meetings at the synagogues. Everyone would see you and know you were a respected member of society. But you didn’t have to wait until the Sabbath to be show off your amazing prayer skills. Jews in the New Testament prayed three times a day—in the morning, the afternoon, and the evening. Many religious leaders would show up to public places and pray out loud so everyone could see just how spiritual they were.
However, Jesus warned us not to put
on a show when it comes to our relationship with God and prayer. He said, “Don’t be like the hypocrites…” In ancient Greece, hypocrite was the word for
an actor who performed in a theater.
Jesus said our relationship with God is to be real, not pretend and
certainly not an act we put own to convince others we’re something we are
not. If your goal is to impress others
or earn their admiration when you pray, then that is the only reward you will
get. And the praise and admiration of
people is cheap and fleeting. Ask a real
actor or actress and they will tell you—one day you’re a star and the next day
you are forgotten.
Matthew 6:6
6 But when you pray, go away by yourself, shut the door behind you, and pray to your Father in private. Then your Father, who sees everything, will reward you.
When You Pray…
Jesus’ instructions for prayer are very simple.
Go away by yourself, shut the door, and pray to you Father in private. Notice that Jesus said, “When you pray…” That means Jesus expected His followers to
pray. It’s not if you pray. It’s when
Prayer is essential in a relationship with God. It is how we connect with God. Prayer keeps us focused. Prayer takes our attention off ourselves and our problems and plugs us into the divine source of all life.
I saw a video recently that is a wonderful illustration of prayer. Some construction workers using a corded circular saw
to cut some boards on a worksite. Unfortunately, the word was not long enough to reach from outlet over to the saw horses where they were cutting the lumber (and they didn't have an extension cord). They thought they were geniuses because they figure out a solution. They would plug the saw into the outlet and rev the saw up to full speed. Then they would unplug it and run across the room and let the residual spinning of the blade cut a little bit on the saw. So little by little, they could cut through the board. But when I saw it, I thought, "why not just move the saw horses closer to the outlet so you can keep the saw plug into the power source?"
That is how prayer is for so many us. We do not have the power within us to be all we need to. God is our source of life and prayer keeps us plugged into The Source of True Life. Unfortunately, we often are like those construction workers. We plug into God through prayer and get revved up, but then we unplug and run away to live life. We run down so fast. So we run back to our source of power to rev up again and unplug to go live life. Why don't we just move closer to God through prayer and stay plugged in? That is what prayer is supposed to be.
And Jesus assumed His followers would pray. So he said, when you pray, do it privately.
Do It Privately…
Jesus is very clear. Don’t use prayer as a means to impress others or win honor. If you do, that’s all the reward you will ever get. For some, looking good to others may seem pretty valuable. Is that what you want? If it is, then go ahead and pretend. But the applause of people is a very cheap and short-sighted reward. We are meant for so much more.
Now, does that
mean we shouldn’t pray in public at all?
If that’s the case, I’m in big trouble because as a pastor, I prayed in public
quite frequently. A public prayer like a pastor prays at the beginning of a worship service is a different kind
of prayer. The pastor is praying on behalf of the whole
community. The pastor is trying to put the whole congregations' hopes and concerns
Our public prayers are part of a communal experience we share once a week in communal worship or at other public gatherings that celebrate what should be happening privately in each of our lives every day. But if we aren’t praying privately on a day to day basis when no one can see, then our public prayers become hypocritical acts performed only for show that have no real substance. Jesus said, don't be like that. he said, when you pray, do it privately, to your Father...
To Your Father…
Jesus gives a very powerful clue to reveal the most important element of authentic Christian prayer. He said, “When you pray, go away by yourself, shut the door behind you, and pray to your Father." There’s no magic formula. You just talk to God the way you would talk to your Father.
How would you talk to your earthly father? Many are blessed to have great fathers that are easy to talk to. Some of you love to talk with your father. Others had a great father, but he has passed away and you miss the meaningful conversations you had with him. You understand how wonderful it can be to talk to a loving father. That is how you talk to God.
Not all fathers are easy to talk to. I understand. Mine wasn’t. But that’s because earthly fathers are imperfect humans and sometimes selfish or broken. Some people struggle with the image of God as a Father because they never had a good father. I didn’t have a good father, but it never kept me from relating to God as a Father, because I simply know that God is the perfect Father. So I imagine what it would be like to talk to my Dad if all his shortcomings and failings were taken away and he was made perfect in every way.
So when you pray, imagine the ideal father, the perfect father. He would be easy to talk to. He would always be kind and patient. He
would be slow to get angry. He would
always have time for you and always want to talk with you. He wouldn’t be self-absorbed and always
wanting to talk about Himself. Instead,
He would be keenly interested in you always wanting what’s best for you. He would love you unconditionally and help
you in everyway He could. He wouldn’t
try to bribe you by giving you everything you ask for, but instead would give
you the things you really need and guide you to grow as an individual to reach
your full potential. That is what God is like. He's the perfect Father.
And how would you
talk to this perfect Father? There’s no magic
formula. You just talk. And sometimes you would have a long conversation about something really deep. Other times you might make a joke about some silly thing you did that day or some irony you encountered. Sometimes you might just send him a text message on his cellphone to
check in or to pass along a bit of information or to ask a quick question. Sometimes you may call in desperation and say, "Help! I'm out of gas!" or "I've got a flat tire! What do I do?" Sometimes you might just call and say, "I love you, Dad."
Prayer isn’t
hard. If you talk you can pray. And we communicate all day long in many ways
to many people. You do the same thing
with prayer—only you are doing it with God, who is your Father.
Matthew 6:7-8
7 “When you pray, don’t babble on and on as the Gentiles do. They think their prayers are answered merely by repeating their words again and again. 8 Don’t be like them, for your Father knows exactly what you need even before you ask him!
As far as I know,
all religions include some form of prayer.
And there are often elaborate formulas for how to pray. Many religions have prayers that are chanted
over and over again--the idea being the gods will eventually be worn down
by the incessant prayers of the supplicants.
It’s sort of like the 4-year-old child who bombards his mom with the endless
request: “Can I have a cookie? Can I have a cookie? Can I have a cookie? Can I have a cookie?”
Jesus says, don’t
be like that. God cannot be worn down
by our incessant chanting, but He does care
about you and wants to help you with what you really need. He
knows what you need. In fact,
Jesus says, your Father already knows what you need even before you ask!
Some people ask,
“Well if God already knows what I need, why do I have to pray.” Well, for one thing, because we need to talk to God. He’s the source of Life. Prayer is how we plug in.
Another reason is
prayer changes us. Sometimes we
start out praying for one thing, but through the process of praying we realize
we’re asking for the wrong thing. So we
grow through prayer.
I can think of
another reason. The spiritual forces of
darkness cannot stand to hear our prayers.
You cannot see, it, but Scripture says we are engaged in a spiritual
battle. Demons are all around wanting to
trip us up and lead us astray. Our
prayers to God are a loud shrill that pierces their ears and drives them insane until they flee away. So pray.
Pray, pray, pray! It doesn’t have
to be some fancy prayer. You just have
to talk to your Heavenly Father and the Enemy flees away.
We will talk more
about prayer next week when we consider Jesus’ instruction about the Lord’s
prayer. But I challenge you to focus on
prayer this week. Establish a specific
time each day when you will spend time in prayer.
And then also pray short prayers throughout your day.
You can study all kinds of materials and formulas about how to pray, but the best way to learn is simply to pray. So, get out there this week and practice! Just pray!