Introduction
I’m proud of all my kids. They're all intelligent, independent, and successful. They’ve never been afraid to be different, to be themselves. My son Gavin graduated from High school 3rd in his class. He went to college and used to ride his bicycle from his dorm to his classes. But two wheels got boring to him. So he decided he wanted to learn to ride on one. So he got a unicycle! He's older now--28. He decided to learn Vietnamese. Why? Because his girlfriend's family immigrated from Vietnam and he want to be able to speak to her mother.
1This letter is from Peter, an apostle of Jesus Christ. I am writing to God’s chosen people who are living as foreigners in the provinces of Pontus, Galatia, Cappadocia, Asia, and Bithynia. 2 God the Father knew you and chose you long ago, and his Spirit has made you holy. As a result, you have obeyed him and have been cleansed by the blood of Jesus Christ. May God give you more and more grace and peace.
Do you remember thos pickup games we used to play when we were kids? Maybe it was kickball or touch-football. Two captains would pick kids to be on their teams. They always picked the most athletic kids first. And you never wanted to be last.
God's Spirit has made you holy. Holy means “set apart for the special, sacred purposes of God” – Not to be used for unholy purposes any more.
A communion chalice is just a fancy cup. But you wouldn't use it to drink you morning coffee with breakfast. It could, technically, do it. But coffee is not that chalices intended purpose. No, the communion chalice is set apart for a different, sacred purpose. It was made to serve Holy Communion.
Likewise, you were set apart for a different, holy purpose by God. When you are holy, you are different, not like the rest.
It's interesting to me that so many people have tattoos these days. When I was a kid, it was unusual to see someone with a tattoo. They were considered different. (Now, I want to be clear--I don't have any problem with tattoos and I don't think God does either.) These days, it seems everyone has a tattoo (it's actually 32 % according to a 2023 survey). If you want to be different today, maybe it's not getting a tattoo that makes you different, but not getting one!
God doesn't want us to be like everyone else. God wants us to be different. Then we stand out as special. When you are holy, you are special. Perhaps you've known someone who was special, who was different, because of the way they walked with the Lord. The loved people and were full of God's grace in ways that were different from most people. People remember folks like that. And they have a positive impact on people and the world.
· When you are holy, you stand out--like a diamond. Diamonds are so valuable because they sparkle. And that's how God wants His people to be. He wants us to sparkle and shine for Jesus. Stop trying to blend in. Be yourself--the unique, special, sparkling work of art God made you to be.
But some people might say, “I don’t want to be different…” An interesting thing happens with most teenagers that causes their parents a lot of anxiety. Doctors and psychologists tell us that teenagers are biologically engineered to start separating from their parents and create their own identity. From the time they are babies to about the age of 13, most kids adore their parents and want to be just like them.
Then they turn into teenagers and start to pull away. All of a sudden, they stop admiring their parents and start thinking they are boring and old and uncool. And parents often get frustrated because it feels like their teenagers are going off the deep end, rejecting everything they've worked so hard to teach them.
This is
natural, because teenagers are trying to establish their own identity apart
from their parents. They want to be individuals. It isn’t until teenagers
mature a bit more, maybe in their twenties, that they truly find their own identity. They stop trying to be like everyone else and discover it's ok to just be themselves.
Unfortunately, many people never grow out of the human desire to “fit in”. Most people want to adhere to “social norms.” We want to be in fashion; we want to "fit in" our community; we want to be accepted by everyone else. Many still define themselves in relation to others. Few ever stop to think what they really want without regards to what other people have. Even fewer stop to think about what God really wants for them and trust that what He wants is really best.
I've always been a little bit nerdy and curious. That's the way God made me. I was at the beach on a family vacation a few years ago staring out at the ocean. I thought, "I wonder how much salt is in that ocean water and if there's a way I could extract it out?"
So I got a empty gallon jug and filled it up with ocean water and went back to our condo. I put the water in a pot on the stove and boiled it for over an hour until all the water was gone. And in the bottom of the pan was about a half a cup of salt! I was so proud of myself, I used some of it to season my dinner that evening when we got together with our extended family. My brother-in-law looked at me and said, "Chris, I'm all about this DIY stuff you like to do. But salt? Really? You're a wierdo!"
And I said, “Hallelujah!” I own it! I'm proud to be weird--to be different, to be the way God made me!
God wants us to be Different
Anybody can start a fast food restaurant, but Chick -fil-A founder Truitt Cathy said, “We should be about more than just selling chicken. We should be a part of our customers’ lives and the communities in which we serve.” And that's what they do. Not only do they make great chicken, they also help schools and churches and community groups. And they take young employees and teach them skills and values that stay with them long after they go on to work in other companies--values that make the world a better place. And when all other restaurants are open and working on Sunday, Chick-fil-A make a bold statement "We're different!" and they are closed on Sunday.
God wanted the Israel to be like that. He gave them all kinds of weird laws about what food to eat and what cloth to wear and how to act. And they were to rest on the Sabbath. All the other nations around them would look at them and say, "Those are some weird people!" And yes! That's what God wanted! God wanted Israel to be special, to stand out, so everyone would know they were His people and they would represent Him to the world.
In the New Testament, Jesus told us the most important way we would be different be in the way we love. He said in John 13:35, “Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.” He even said His followers are to love their enemies and pray for those who persecute them. Now that's different! And when Christians truly live this way, people take notice. And many even want to follow Jesus themselves.
God Chose You, but Do You
Choose God?
Long ago, God chose you
to be holy. How long will it be before you humble yourself, bow down, and choose to follow God? When you choose God
through faith in Jesus Christ, Peter says you, “have been cleansed by the blood
of Jesus Christ.” Then, you are holy
and forgiven and you will have more grace and peace. People will begin to
see you are Holy Different and you will live a Holy and Different life, a
better life, and you will have eternal life. And you will know
you are loved. And you will love people
like Jesus loves.
Are you ready? If you are, turn from your sins and follow Jesus and let Him make you Holy Different today!