The Wonder of His Return | A Sermon on Matthew 25:14-30

Introduction
It's been my privilege all week long to be the storyteller at Vacation Bible School. We did four days, Monday through Thursday, and there are five lessons, so we wanted to finish up this fifth lesson today during church. You'll get to get a taste of what the kids have been learning, and I hope that it's something that will speak to your heart as well today, because it really is something that we all need to remember.

As we've been doing Wonder Junction and we've been wondering about Jesus all week long, we've been learning about His life from beginning to the end. Our theme verse, as Summer said, for the week has been Psalm 113:3: "From the rising of the sun to the setting, the name of the Lord shall be praised." That's a fitting verse because we've been learning about Jesus and His life from the beginning to the end, and then today we're going to be learning what happens after that.

Day one, we learned about Jesus being born in a manger, and we learned that the Word of God became flesh and dwelt among us. On day two, we learned about Jesus when He was 12 years old—just about the time that a lot of the kids are finishing up Vacation Bible School and going into the youth program. Jesus went to the temple, and He was full of God's wisdom because He knew the Word and He was able to sit in the temple and talk with the priests, and they were amazed at His wisdom.

Then on day three, we learned how He showed His power in one particular story where the disciples and Jesus were in a boat out on the water on the Sea of Galilee. The wind and the waves began to crash, and even though Jesus was there in the boat, He was asleep. The disciples cried out to Him, "Lord, Lord, don't You even care? Why are You sleeping?" He woke up, calmed the storm, and they said, "Even the wind and the waves obey Him."

And then on day four, we learned about the greatest rescue plan of all time. Jesus came and He gave Himself for us on the cross at Calvary. He laid down His life so that we can be forgiven of our sins and be welcomed into the Kingdom of God and receive eternal life if we will follow Him, turn away from our sins, and follow Him.

So that's what we've been learning all week long. Today, we're going to learn how Jesus is coming back one day. We're going to wonder at His return. Today we're not talking about what He did in the past, but we're looking at what He's going to do in the future.

This story comes to us from Matthew chapter 25, verses 14–30. I want to read that to you. This is a parable that Jesus told, and He's telling it again to us today:

Matthew 25:14-30
¹⁴ “Again, the Kingdom of Heaven can be illustrated by the story of a man going on a long trip. He called together his servants and entrusted his money to them while he was gone. ¹⁵ He gave five bags of silver^[a] to one, two bags of silver to another, and one bag of silver to the last—dividing it in proportion to their abilities. He then left on his trip.

¹⁶ “The servant who received the five bags of silver began to invest the money and earned five more. ¹⁷ The servant with two bags of silver also went to work and earned two more. ¹⁸ But the servant who received the one bag of silver dug a hole in the ground and hid the master’s money.

¹⁹ “After a long time their master returned from his trip and called them to give an account of how they had used his money. ²⁰ The servant to whom he had entrusted the five bags of silver came forward with five more and said, ‘Master, you gave me five bags of silver to invest, and I have earned five more.’

²¹ “The master was full of praise. ‘Well done, my good and faithful servant. You have been faithful in handling this small amount, so now I will give you many more responsibilities. Let’s celebrate together!^[b]’

²² “The servant who had received the two bags of silver came forward and said, ‘Master, you gave me two bags of silver to invest, and I have earned two more.’

²³ “The master said, ‘Well done, my good and faithful servant. You have been faithful in handling this small amount, so now I will give you many more responsibilities. Let’s celebrate together!’

²⁴ “Then the servant with the one bag of silver came and said, ‘Master, I knew you were a harsh man, harvesting crops you didn’t plant and gathering crops you didn’t cultivate. ²⁵ I was afraid I would lose your money, so I hid it in the earth. Look, here is your money back.’

²⁶ “But the master replied, ‘You wicked and lazy servant! If you knew I harvested crops I didn’t plant and gathered crops I didn’t cultivate, ²⁷ why didn’t you deposit my money in the bank? At least I could have gotten some interest on it.’

²⁸ “Then he ordered, ‘Take the money from this servant, and give it to the one with the ten bags of silver. ²⁹ To those who use well what they are given, even more will be given, and they will have an abundance. But from those who do nothing, even what little they have will be taken away. ³⁰ Now throw this useless servant into outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’

The Basics of the Story
Now this is a parable Jesus told. It's a story full of symbols. He's not really talking about servants and farmers and masters—He's talking about us, the people on this earth. The master in the story is Jesus the Lord. The servants in the story are each of us. And the talents, the silver, is our time, our gifts, our influence, our resources.

Each one of us has been given by God time, gifts, talents, resources. All that we have comes from the Lord. It's not ours—it was given to us by the Master with the purpose of using it for His glory to do His work while we're here on the earth.

And the story is telling us also something very important: Jesus is going to come back. He's gone now, but He's coming back. And when He gets here, He wants to see what we've done with what He gave us.

Now I want you to understand something. A lot of times when we talk about Jesus coming back, we think about something that's going to happen far off in a distant time—maybe decades from now, maybe hundreds or thousands of years from now. But I want you to understand, each and every one of you, that Jesus is coming back for you in your lifetime one way or another.

The belief in the Christian faith is that one day Jesus is going to come on the clouds for all the earth. That may happen in your lifetime. But even if that doesn't happen in your lifetime, I want you to understand: you're going to take your last breath at one point in this life, and when you do, you're going to come face-to-face with Jesus. So He's either going to come for all of us at once or He's going to come for you individually. And when He comes, He's going to want an account, just like He did of these servants in the parable.

Jesus didn't save us just so we could sit in the shade napping with our hats pulled down over our heads. He came and saved us so we could saddle up and ride for His Kingdom. We are on a mission with God to save the world. And He's given each of us different talents, different gifts. Just like He did in the story—He gave some ten bags of silver, some five bags of silver, some one—He gave each and every one of us different talents, different abilities, and differing amounts. But each and every one of us has something that the Lord has given us.

Oftentimes we're afraid to use it. We want to dig a hole, put it in the ground, and bury it. We don't want to step out. We don't want to be the tall blade of grass that gets cut off. We just want to fit in, hide in the crowd. But Jesus calls us to step forward, to step out in faith, and to serve.

What It Means to Be Ready
We’ve got to be ready for when He comes—because He's coming, and we're going to see Him in our lifetime. Being ready doesn't mean that you stand there and look up at the sky and wait for Him to come all your life. It means living as if He's coming—doing what He wants us to do, what He calls all of us to do: love others, be compassionate like He was, be honest and tell the truth like He did, share Jesus and talk to others about what He's done in our life and what He means to us. Be a witness about the kind of Savior that we serve and what He's done for us to save us. He's calling us to be kind as Jesus was kind and compassionate—helping those that are in need, not only thinking of ourselves but thinking of others and even being giving to others sacrificially, to the point that it hurts. Be faithful in work, faithful with our family, in our church, in our community.

Use the gifts that God has given us. He's given each one of us a little something different. One of the joys in life is discovering what kind of a gift God gave you. Are you a singer? Are you a preacher? Are you a teacher? Are you a helper behind the scenes?

Throughout this week of Vacation Bible School, we saw so many different people serving in so many different ways—from Summer, who's standing up in front of everybody talking, to the people who were registering people as they come in to make sure their kids were safe, to the people who were putting up decorations or bringing donations. Everybody had a part. This is a good image of what we have in life: there are so many things that have to be done throughout our world and in our community, and each one of us has got a different gift, and we're called to use that for the glory of God—not to hide that talent in the dirt.

It means that we have to live with a sense of urgency. This parable says that the master's coming back, and we don't know when the master's coming back. But we do know that He is coming back, and it's going to be when we least expect it. So we ought to live and we ought to serve out of a sense of urgency.

I don't know about you, but sometimes I feel like I'm a procrastinator, and I just put things off—"Well, I can do that tomorrow," or "I can do that later." But this parable reminds us that you can't live a life of procrastination. Because what if Jesus comes back? What if the master comes back and He calls for an account? You're going to feel really silly when you say, "Well, I was going to get to that tomorrow," and He says, "But you've had your whole life to do and to use what I've given you. What have you been doing with what I gave you?" And don't you want to be able to give a good account? I know I do.

Living in the Wonder
So when you think about your life and you think about what this message is saying to us, ask yourself the question: What would you do differently this week if you knew Jesus was going to be coming back on Friday? How would you live your life differently if you knew you're going to have to give an account to the Master on Friday? But you know what—you might not have until Friday. You might have to give an account tomorrow. You might have to give an account this afternoon.

So it gives us a sense of urgency to get to work doing what He's called us to do. If there's someone you need to talk to, do it. Don't put it off. If there's something in your heart that you need to get right with the Lord, do it. Don't put it off.

We live with a sense of hope and a sense of wonder and a sense of expectation as Christians. Now some people might hear this story and it might put in their heart a sense of dread. But we're not called to live as Christians with a sense of dread or fear, like a doom-and-gloom belief that the world is going to end. We know the world is going to end, but that's not a bad thing if we are walking with the Lord. If we're doing what He's called us to do, then when the world ends or when Jesus comes back, that's going to be a good thing. Because what did He do for the faithful servants? He said, "Come on, let's celebrate together."

What a wonderful thing—that we get to celebrate, and we get to see the world being recreated, and everything that is wrong in it being made right. And even within ourselves, the things we wish were different—He's going to make them different and right and perfect. So it's a wonderful thing to look forward to. It's not a sense of dread; it's a sense of wonder and of hope and of expectation, so long as we're living for Him, doing our best.

Here's the thing too—the Christian hope: our Master is not a harsh master. He's a gracious and kind and merciful Master. He understands that we try and we mess up. He'd rather you try and stumble than not try at all. He doesn't want you to bury your gifts in the sand. He wants you to step out and try. And if you step out and fail, that's okay. He's going to be proud that you tried, and He's going to let you try again. That's the wonderful hope we have as Christians—a merciful Master.

But if you're not living for the Lord, if you're only living for yourself and doing what makes you happy without any care for what the Master wants, well then that's something to worry about. That's something to get right with the Lord instead of waiting and putting it off. He wants you to get that right.

The trail of the Christian doesn't end at the cross. The trail ends when Jesus returns and makes everything right. Jesus comes back, and we get to ride into glory with Him.

Conclusion and Invitation
If Jesus came back today—for all of us, or for you individually—would you be ready? What have you done with the time and the treasures that He's given to you?

Another wonderful hope for the Christian is we don't have to be discouraged if we look back on our life and think, "Man, I should have done this. I should have done that," or "I haven't even done anything at all." Even if you failed so far, there's forgiveness, and there's always a chance for a fresh start. You can start today, right this moment, moving forward following the Lord. And the Savior honors that. He honors that and He welcomes that.

So if you've never done anything, if you've not been following the Lord, today you can start brand new and fresh. And for Christians who have been following the Lord, we can always look back and think about things we could have done better. But that's okay. The Savior is gracious and He invites us to renew our faith and our commitment to follow Him and move forward in a new day.

As we come to the close of the lesson today, I want to invite you—if you've not decided to follow the Lord, you can follow Him from this day forward. Make that commitment today. And if you're a Christian and you're following the Lord, you've been trying, I would invite you to renew your faith in Him and your commitment to follow Him.

Now as we close, I'd like to do something special. I'm going to give parents and their children a chance to come forward to the altar. We're not going to do anything crazy; we're not going to have any crazy religious ceremonies. But I would like to give a blessing to all the kids and all of the parents who come forward and receive that. I promise—it'll just be a prayer, but it'll be a time for us to feel Christ surrounding us and a time to bless Him.

Would you come forward to receive a blessing? Come on forward if you would. I don't want to pressure you—if you don't want to, that's okay. But you won't be standing alone. It looks like we’ve got a lot coming forward. Thank you, thank you for coming. Thank you for being part of Vacation Bible School all week long.

All right. Let's pray together:

Thank You, Father, for the wonder of this week—for the laughter and the learning and the love. Thank You for every child who came through our doors, for every volunteer who gave their time, for every heart in this room today that's been praying for Vacation Bible School and for all of the wonderful things that You've done.

And now, Lord, as we stand together, young and old, we remember the greatest promise of all: You're coming back. And when You come back, Lord, You're not coming back as a baby, but You're coming back as the King of Kings. We desperately want to be ready. We want to do our best. We want to be fruitful as Your servants here on this earth.

So Lord, we ask that You help us to live every day like it matters. Help us to experience the fullness of this life and the joy that You want to give. Help us to make a difference as we laugh and love together.

Lord, we want to love You more, and we want to serve You more, and we want to trust You. So even when the trail gets rough, help us. We're not perfect, Lord, but we know You didn't come for the perfect. You came to rescue us and redeem us and to walk with us until You return.

So today we stand here not because we've got it all figured out, but because we want to follow You. We want our kids to know You. We want to be a church that keeps looking up—keeps living in the wonder of Your return.

So Lord, we offer ourselves to You, and I ask Your blessings upon these children, upon their families, and upon their futures. May it all be for Your glory. Through the name of Jesus Christ we pray, Amen.

Thank you so much for coming and being a part of this service today and our Vacation Bible School.

I know that we all want what's best for our kids, for our families. We care about our community. One of the best things we can do to make a difference in our lives and in the lives of our families and our communities is to be part of a loving church community—a faith community. I know the church is not perfect. We make mistakes. And it's because we're filled with imperfect people. But I haven't seen a better option. If you want to make the world a better place, if you want to make your life a better place, be a part of a church family.

We would love to have you as part of ours here at Pleasant Grove. Like I said, we're not a perfect church—we're just real people, which means we have real problems. But we work through them together and we move forward, and we become better. It's all by God's glory. We'd love to have you as part of our family. So thank you for being here today.

Living in Covenant with God | A Sermon on Noah from Genesis 9:8-17

Introduction
Kids sometimes say to each other: “Cross my heart and hope to die.  Stick a needle in my eye.”  It’s a way of saying: “You can trust me.  I’m telling the truth” or “I will keep my word.”  We all want to be able to trust others are telling the truth or will keep their word, but we’ve learned from experience:  not everyone does.

For thousands of years, people used covenants to make important promises to each other.  Sometimes covenants were between equal partners.  One king might say to another king:  “If your enemy attacks you, I’ll come help you.  If my enemy attacks me, you come help me.  And if I break our covenant, may I suffer divine curses!”  Sometimes covenants were made between powerful emperors and their vassals: “If you serve me as a faithful subject, I’ll protect you and treat you fair. 
But if you rebel against me, I will destroy you and everything you love!”

In the Bible, God made covenants with people to build, repair, and strengthen His relationship with them. These agreements show that He wants to be close to people, even though they make mistakes and do wrong things. Covenants also give people guidance on how to live in peace with God and each other.

God’s Rescue Plan
I once heard the true story of two men who went rock climbing together out in the wilderness.  One man held the safety rope for his partner while he climbed up the side of a cliff.  But something went wrong and the safety rope failed and one man fell a hundred feet.  He was broken and severely injured, but still alive.  His partner called for help, but the rescue mission was very difficult.  A rescue team had to hike in to retrieve the injured man.  A helicopter had to life flight him to a hospital and an ICU team had to work with him for weeks to get him stabilized, perform multiple emergency surgeries to repair shattered bones and ruptured organs.  Even then, the rescue wasn't complete.  it took months for the injured climber to heal and years of physical therapy before he could walk again and begin to return to a normal life.  Today, thanks to God's healing and so many people who contributed to his rescue, that injured climber is able to work again and carry on a normal life with his family and friends.

Bible scholar and teacher, Sandra Richter, compares the way God rescued humanity from the brokenness of sin to the rescue of an injured climber--it is a long, difficult, and very costly process.  We call the original sin of Adam and Eve "the fall".  It's an apt description because after the fall, humanity (and all creation) were broken physically, mentally, and spiritually and we were unable to rescue ourselves.  We need God to save us.   

There are five covenants God made with humanity in the Bible as art of His rescue plan.  First, God made a covenant with all living creatures in the story of Noah and the flood.  Then, God made a covenant with one man, Abraham to bless his family line.  Next, God made a covenant with a people though Moses to make the Israelites His own people.  Then, God made a covenant with the Kingdom of Israel through David.  Finally, God made a new covenant to save the world from sin through Jesus.  We will go through all these covenants over the next few weeks.  But today, let’s start with Noah.

God’s Rescue Plan Starts with Noah
In Genesis 6:5, it tells us “The Lord observed the extent of human wickedness on the earth, and he saw that everything they thought or imagined was consistently and totally evil.”  Humanity was so broken, the best thing our good, companionate, merciful, and patient God could was to start all over with creation--to wash the world clean with a flood.  God decides to start over with one man, Noah.  God instructs Noah to build an ark to save his family and pairs of all the animals.  Then God sends a great flood that destroys the earth and every living thing not in the ark.  Afterward, God makes a covenant with Noah and all creation.  Let's read it.

Genesis 9:8-17
⁸ Then God told Noah and his sons, ⁹ “I hereby confirm my covenant with you and your descendants, ¹⁰ and with all the animals that were on the boat with you—the birds, the livestock, and all the wild animals—every living creature on earth. ¹¹ Yes, I am confirming my covenant with you. Never again will floodwaters kill all living creatures; never again will a flood destroy the earth.”

¹² Then God said, “I am giving you a sign of my covenant with you and with all living creatures, for all generations to come. ¹³ I have placed my rainbow in the clouds. It is the sign of my covenant with you and with all the earth. ¹⁴ When I send clouds over the earth, the rainbow will appear in the clouds, ¹⁵ and I will remember my covenant with you and with all living creatures. Never again will the floodwaters destroy all life. ¹⁶ When I see the rainbow in the clouds, I will remember the eternal covenant between God and every living creature on earth.” ¹⁷ Then God said to Noah, “Yes, this rainbow is the sign of the covenant I am confirming with all the creatures on earth.”

God made a covenant with Noah
This is an important moment in our relationship with God. It might be understandable if God decided to give Up on humanity. We rebelled against Him for no good reason. But despite our treachery, God did not give up in us. He looks over the disgusting mess we made of His world, and God decides to save what He can. And starting with Noah, God begins to rescue the world. And He starts with a covenant. 

Components of a Covenant
A typical covenant in the Bible and the ancient world usually included these components:

1. The Parties Involved – the parties in the 1^st covenant are God and Noah & all living creatures.

2. Promises – what each party commits to.  In this 1^st covenant, God will not destroy the earth with a flood verse 11.  People will not murder and will be fruitful and multiply and repopulate the earth (verses 5-7)

3. Consequences – Specifies the blessings for obedience and the penalties for breaking the covenant.  God says He “will require the blood of anyone who takes another person’s life.” (verse 5)

4. A Sign – to serve as a tangible reminder of the agreement.  What was the sign of God’s covenant with Noah?  The rainbow.  In the ancient world, it was common to carve a picture into a stone monument as a sign of a covenant between a conquering king and the people he conquered…

5. Witnesses – In the first covenant, God and all living things are witnesses to the promise.

What God’s Covenant with Noah Teaches Us
God’s covenant with Noah teaches us something important:  God is faithful, even when the world around us is not.  God kept His promise to Noah, and He continues to keep His promises to us today.  But this covenant also challenges us to live as people who reflect that same faithfulness.  In a world where broken promises are common—where commitments are often abandoned when things get hard—we are to be true to our word.

Think about the promises you’ve made. Maybe it’s to your spouse, your kids, or a friend.  Maybe it’s a promise you made to God—something you committed to in prayer or during a tough time. These promises matter.  Just as God’s word never fails, He calls us to be people who keep our word.

The truth is, being faithful isn’t always easy. There will be times when it’s tempting to walk away from commitments—when relationships feel too hard, when life gets overwhelming, or when sticking to your word feels inconvenient. But it’s in those moments that faithfulness becomes a powerful witness. When you keep your promises, even when it’s hard, you show the world a glimpse of God’s character.  You reflect His truth and reliability in a world that desperately needs both.

So, how can you live out faithfulness today?  Maybe it means forgiving someone you’ve been holding a grudge against because you promised to love as Jesus loves.  Maybe it means staying committed to a relationship that’s difficult right now.  Or maybe it’s about showing up and following through on the small promises you’ve made, even when no one else notices.

Faithfulness in small things adds up to a life that points others to God.  When we are faithful with what we say and do, we become part of God’s ongoing story of redemption—reflecting His goodness and reliability to those around us.

As we leave today, I challenge you to ask: What promises have I made that I need to keep? How can I be more faithful in my relationships and commitments? Remember, we serve a God who never breaks His promises—and He calls us to live with that same kind of faithfulness.

Rainbow Ceremony
As we close today, I want to invite you to come to the altar while the praise band sings.  The are pens and slips of paper on the altar.  Each paper has a rainbow on it and it says:  Write down one promise to God you intend to always keep.

I invite each of you to come to the altar and pray for a moment about the promises you’ve made.
And then I invite you to write down one promise to God you intend to always keep.  Then, take the slip of paper with you and put it someone where it will always remind you of your promise, just like the rainbow in the sky reminds us of God’s promise.

What Jesus Really Said About Divorce

Introduction
We are working our way through Jesus’ famous Sermon on the Mount found in Matthew chapters 5-7.  Today our subject is a sensitive one:  divorce.  The experience of divorce is described by many as one of the most painful experiences of life.  It is something that affects not only the divorced couple, but also their children, families, and friends.  And just based on statistics, it’s likely half of the people reading this have been through a divorce or will sometime in their lifetime.

Jesus had some important things to say about marriage and divorce.  He spoke the Truth with genuine love.  Please know upfront that is my intention too—to speak the truth in love.  I’m not here to judge anyone.  I think if we really understanding of what Jesus said about divorce and how it should be interpreted in our world today, we will find an incredible amount of God’s grace and love as well as Truth that can change our lives forever for the better.

So what did Jesus say?  It is found in Matthew 5:31-32.

Matthew 5:31
³¹ “You have heard the law that says, ‘A man can divorce his wife by merely giving her a written notice of divorce.’ 

Jesus is talking about an Old Testament law in Deuteronomy 24 that says, “If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her…” he can give her a written certificate of divorce and send her away. 

The Jewish religious leaders of Jesus day debated a specific clause in that statement quite a bit: “if he finds something indecent about her.”  What does it mean to be indecent?  There were two popular interpretations in Jesus’ day.  A famous rabbi named Shammai said the only indecency that could lead to divorce was a serious transgression.  For example if a woman was stealing her husband’s money or flirting with her neighbors or walking around exposing herself in public, this was serious indecent behavior that were grounds for divorce.  Another famous rabbi, rabbi Hillel said a man could divorce his wife simply because she burned his toast!

So the religious Jews of Jesus day generally grouped themselves into one or the other school of thought about divorce.  One said you can divorce your wife for almost any reason at all and a stricter belief that it had to be a serious offence.  I should point out here that it would not be necessary to divorce your wife if she cheated on you, because the Old Testament penalty for adultery was death.  So if your wife cheated and was put to death, no divorce is necessary.

But Jesus, who is God, says:

Matthew 5:32
³² But I say that a man who divorces his wife, unless she has been unfaithful, causes her to commit adultery. And anyone who marries a divorced woman also commits adultery.

People has often used this passage to prove Jesus forbids Christians to divorce or to remarry after a divorce.  On the surface, that’s what it seems like Jesus is saying.  But if you only read the passage this way, you are misunderstanding the point Jesus makes.  Throughout this chapter, Jesus uses real-life examples to show people are utterly helpless to fulfill God’s perfect and holy Law.  Remember what Jesus said in the passage last week about lust and adultery?  If you even look at someone else and lust in your heart you’ve already committed adultery in your heart and broken God’s law.  And since hardly anyone can honestly say they haven’t ever lusted, we are guilty.

The Jewish religious leaders knew how hard it was for people to stay married to the same person their whole life.  So they were always looking for exceptions.  One group said “if she burns your toast, you can divorce her.”  Another group said, “No.  It has something serious.”  Jesus said, it was never God’s intention that anyone get divorced, and if you do you are breaking God’s law (see Matthew 19).  The point is, once again, Jesus is saying we are unable to fulfill God's Law.  That’s why Jesus came to fulfill the Law for us, to die on the cross to pay our penalty, and offer us God’s grace and mercy to restore our broken relationship with Him.  This passage is not directly about divorce.  It's about how Jesus came to save us from out sin.  He's using a practical example from life to show how helpless we are.

But What About Divorce?
Well, that’s a fine biblical theology lesson.  However, what we all still want to know:  Is it OK for Christians to divorce and remarry.  I get it.  Divorce is heart wrenching.  And genuine Christians who want to be faithful really struggle when it comes to divorce.

Methodists accept that divorce is sometimes necessary.  This is true of the two largest Methodist denominations—United Methodist Church and the Global Methodist Church.  And as far as I know, divorce is allowed by all the other major Methodist traditions of which I'm aware.  However, I want to state clearly that we believe this not in spite of what Jesus and the Bible says but because of what Jesus and the Bible says.  How can that be when Jesus clearly seems to prohibit divorce?

The Bible’s laws about divorce, laws that Jesus confirmed, were specifically designed to protect women in the ancient world against abandonment.  Since most women in Jesus’ day could not work to provide a living for themselves (unless they turned to prostitution), God did not want women to be abandoned.  So, God gave strict laws to forbid divorce so women could not be cast out and left destitute.

In a perfect world the way God intended it to be, divorce would not be necessary. A man and woman would be faithful and loving to each other their whole lives. But we all know we don’t live in a perfect world.  Sometimes divorce is necessary.  Sometimes, in our modern world, divorce is the way to protect women (and also men). 

Look at an example:  What if a man is abusing his wife?  There is no way in the world Jesus would tell that woman she must stay with her abusive husband.  Jesus’ teaching about divorce was there to protect women, not hurt them.  And this goes for mental, emotional, and spiritual abuse as well as physical abuse.  Jesus wants more than anything to protect the vulnerable.

And it also goes both ways—for both men and women—because Jesus wants to protect men too.  In our modern world where women can leave their husband and make it on their own, men need protection from abusive relationships too.  Sometimes divorce is the only way out of a abusive marriage for a husband.  And if Jesus was here today speaking to you, He would say the same thing.  So don’t let anyone twist what Jesus said to protect women 2,000 year ago to hurt women (or men) today.  God’s Law and Jesus’ teaching is meant to protect the vulnerable from abuse.

Now, that is not to say Christians should take marriage lightly or use divorce as a excuse not to work through tough marital issues.  Marriage takes a lot of work and faithful spouses should be committed to do everything possible to stay together if they can.  The truth is, divorce is so difficult and expensive and painful, I don’t think too many people out there take it lightly. 
Our goal should be to marry for life.  And I think two faithful people who are truly committed to each other and to Jesus can find a way to be together for life.  But it takes both the husband and the wife to make that happen.  And if it can’t happen and staying married is more harmful than good, then divorce is permissible—maybe even advisable.

In first Corinthians 7, the Apostle Paul also taught about divorce.  He said if your spouse is determined to leave, you should let them go.  You aren’t bound to try and force them to stay.

There is much more that could be said on the subject of marriage and divorce than we can address in a general message like this.  Marriage and divorce are complex and every case is unique.  If you are struggling in your marriage or contemplating divorce, come talk with me (or find a good pastor or marriage counselor to talk to.)  Many times marriage problems that seem too big to be worked out can be overcome with a little help from a counselor.  And if your problems are truly cause for separation or divorce, a wise counselor can help you determine that too and you will have the peace of mind knowing you did everything you could to save your marriage.

We Live In A Broken World
We live in a broken world.  The Bible tells us our spiritual ancestors, Adam and Eve, disobeyed God and brought sin into the world.  All of creation has suffers the consequences.  Romans 3:23 says, “All have sinned and fall short of God’s glorious standard.”  We see the results all around us.  There is sickness.  There is war.  There is famine.  Even our marriages fail because the world is not the way God intended it or wants it to be.  

That’s why Jesus came.  He came to fulfill the requirements of the Law when we couldn’t.  Jesus gave His life on the cross to atone for our sins.  Jesus rose from the grave to prove God’s promise of reconciliation and eternal life for all who repent and call on the name of Jesus to be saved.  So remember what Jesus did for us and follow Him as Lord and He will strengthen you to live for Him until we realize the healing and restoration of the coming Kingdom of Heaven.

Don't Fall Away

Introduction
Do you ever stop to review all God has done for you?  I have lived long enough now that it is quite easy to forget all the wonderful things Jesus has done for me.  It's not that I'm not grateful.  It's that there is just so much my brain is not big enough to consciously contain it all--unless I intentionally sit down and try to recall it.  As I do, I think of how Jesus saved me from a broken, abusive home and from poverty.  I remember how Jesus led me to the woman who would become my wife.  I recall how Jesus inspired me and my wife to get a college education, even though it was very difficult and we didn't have a lot of financial support from our families.  Then, Jesus called me to leave a promising career in engineering to enter the ministry, which was another great unknown and tremendously difficult.  Furthermore, Jesus somehow gave us the wisdom and energy to raise 3 brilliant kids, despite moving around from place to place and living on very little income.  I could go on and on about God's blessings to me and my family.  

How about you? What has God done for you? Some of you have survived strokes, heart attacks, and other devastating injuries.  I know someone who conquered cancer and gone on to be very active in my church.  Others have overcome, with God's help, substance abuse or other terribly difficult problems.  Some of survived losing a child or a spouse or someone else you love deeply, picked yourself back up after a divorce, or coped with mental illness.  We’ve all made it through COVID (so far); do you remember when the world shut down?  Here we are.  We are still alive and living, with God's help!  Let us give thanks for God is good!

This is the last blog in our series about conquering your fears. Through faith in Christ we can overcome our fears because God fights for us and we are not alone.  God is with us and the heroes of the Bible and even our loved ones who’ve died and gone to heaven cheer us on when we have faith in Christ.

We’ve been studying how the Israelites had to conquer their fears in order to enter the Promised Land.  The Israelites started out as slaves in Egypt.  God sent 10 plagues to force the Egyptians to let the Israelites go free.  Unfortunately, the Israelites were too afraid to enter the Pormised Land, so they were stuck wandering in the wilderness for forty years until Moses and all the original generation died (except for Joshua and Caleb).  Then Joshua became the new leader who led a new generation to conquer Jericho and the rest of Canaan.  

Now, as we come to our story for today, Joshua is an old man.  God has done all the major fighting for Israel.  Most of the unbelievers have been driven out of Canaan.  A few remain as a test of Israel’s faithfulness—to see if they will complete the work of driving out all the worshipers of false gods (or if they will be unfaithful to Yahweh, the God of Israel).  And now, Joshua is coming to the end of his life and he has some parting advice for his people. 

Joshua 23:6-13
⁶ “So be very careful to follow everything Moses wrote in the Book of Instruction. Do not deviate from it, turning either to the right or to the left. ⁷ Make sure you do not associate with the other people still remaining in the land. Do not even mention the names of their gods, much less swear by them or serve them or worship them. ⁸ Rather, cling tightly to the Lord your God as you have done until now.

⁹ “For the Lord has driven out great and powerful nations for you, and no one has yet been able to defeat you. ¹⁰ Each one of you will put to flight a thousand of the enemy, for the Lord your God fights for you, just as he has promised. ¹¹ So be very careful to love the Lord your God.

12 “But if you turn away from him and cling to the customs of the survivors of these nations remaining among you, and if you intermarry with them, ¹³ then know for certain that the Lord your God will no longer drive them out of your land. Instead, they will be a snare and a trap to you, a whip for your backs and thorny brambles in your eyes, and you will vanish from this good land the Lord your God has given you.

Joshua’s 4 Pieces of Advice
Joshua gives the Israelites four pieces of advice:  1.     Be Obedient.  2.     Be Faithful.  3.     Continue the Mission.  And 4.     Love the Lord your God.

 

Be Obedient

God wanted the Israelites to be obedient.  It’s important to point out that God’s grace came before His call to obedience.  In Exodus 1, the Israelites were slaves in Egypt.  Then God does amazing, miraculous things to deliver the Israelites:

He sent ten plagues on the Egyptians to force them to let the Israelites go.  Then God parting the Red Sea so Israel could cross the sea safely on dry ground.  Next God fed the Hebrews in the wilderness with mana from heaven and quail for meat and water in the desert.  

Now notice, all this happens before God gives Israel the Law.  Exodus chapters 1-19 is all about what God does for the Israelites.  It is not until Exodus 20 that God gives Israel the ten commandments and the rest of the Law.  You see, God’s grace and deliverance precedes the requirements He gives, even in the Old Testament.

 

The same is true for you.  God’s grace pursues you, woos you, encourages you, and invites you before you even spend a single second thinking about Him.  Then, when you realize you need God and you turn from your sin and turn to God through Jesus, God saves you and adopts you as His very own child.  Now, you are part of His family forever.  It is only after God has done all this that you don't deserve that God asks you to be faithful and obedient and act as a member of His royal family.

 

Be Faithful

God enabled Joshua and the Israelites to drive out the unbelieving Canaanites from the Holy Land, because the Canaanites had rejected the One True God for generations (for at least 400 years).  So now, God gave the land to the Israelites.  They were to be God’s royal priesthood who would represent God to the whole world.  They were to help all the nations return to God.  They had a special purpose. 

A few Canaanite settlements remained in the land.  They were there to test Israel’s faithfulness.  Would Israel be faithful to God?  Would they become bored with their devotion to God and become intrigued by the exotic foreign gods of the Canaanites who remained in the land?  Would they decide to hedge their bets?  (You know, let’s worship the God of Israel so He will be good to us, but let’s also worship the gods of the Canaanites just in case?)  God wanted Israel to be faithful to Him alone.

Unfortunately, Joshua 23:12 has been used to say God forbids intermarriage between different races or nations because it says, "if you turn away from him and cling to the customs of the survivors of these nations remaining among you, and if you intermarry with them, then know for certain that the Lord your God will no longer drive them out of your land."  God doesn't have a problem with intermarriage between people of different races.  It is intermarriage between believers and unbelievers that God discourages.  We know this is true because the clues are right there in the Scripture.  Caleb was the only other Israelite (besides Joshua) who left Egypt who was also honored to enter the Promised Land.  Caleb was not an ethnic Israelite. He was a Kenizzite (which were a Canaanites), yet Caleb married and had descendents who were accepted as Israelites who received allotments in the Holy Land.  Furthermore, Rahab was a Canaanite from Jericho. God saved her when she converted and worshiped the God of the Israelites.  Rehab married an Israelite named Salmon.  She became the great great grandmother mother of King David and one of the direct ancestors of Jesus. Rahab, a Canaanite prostitute, is listed in the New Testament as one of the great heroes of the Christian faith (Hebrews 11:31).  Intermarriage of different races wasn't the problem. Marrying people who worshipped false gods was the problem.  The person you marry is the person who has the greatest influence in your life.  Therefore, we should chose someone who shares our most important core values, which should be our devotion to God through Christ.

In this life, there are many things that will entice you away from God.  Be very, very careful that you remain faithful to God.  He is the only one worthy of your worship.  He must be the first priority of your life.  Do not turn away from Him for riches, for family, for power, for influence, for nation, for politics, for entertainment, for anything.

 

Continue the Mission

God chose the Israelites for a purpose.  He blessed them so that they could be a blessing.  God had already done the hard work of driving out most of the Canaanites.  All that was left was to mop up the few remaining groups.  This was certainly doable for the Israelites who now had a majority and who occupied the fortified cities of Canaan.  Unfortunately, they lost their focus on being the royal priests of God.  They turned their attention to their own personal pursuits—their families, income, and pleasure.  They forgot the mission of God.  Before long, this led to complacency and unfaithfulness.

 

Christians have a mission too.  We are to go into all the world and make disciples of Christ.  We are to teach people about the love and salvation of Christ and invite people to follow Him as Lord.  We are to baptize them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.  When we get distracted, we worry about all the other things in life.  The main mission of Christ becomes an after thought or no thought at all.  Our lives are about what makes us happy and soon we don’t even care about God at all, except that maybe He can be useful to give us what we want or help keep us from losing what we love.  Where are we then?  We've become like the Canaanites.  We are right back where we started—full of fear, feeling lost and alone.  

We must stay focused on the mission of God or we get lost once and consumed by our selfishness, fear, and depravity.

 

Love the Lord Your God

Joshua told the Israelites to love the Lord their God.  Jesus said the same thing.  He said the most important commandment was to love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your mind, and with all your strength.  And the second was like it:  Love your neighbor as yourself.  

Love is powerful.  Fear of punishment only goes so far.  It’s an immature and incomplete way of living.  God doesn’t want us to obey Him out of fear.  He wants us to obey because of love.  

 

How is it with your friends, your children, your spouse?  Do you want them to be faithful only because they’re afraid of what will happen or how you will react if they betray you?  No!  We want the people we love to be kind and faithful because they love us. Right?

God is the same way.  God has already loved you with the greatest love of all.  Romans 5:8 – “God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners.”  God wants us to be obedient and faithful—not out of fear, but—out of love.  When you love someone, you try to the best of your ability to do what they want.  Most importantly, you do what they need (even if it's not what they want).  That's love.  

What Christ asks of us is not so difficult.  It is an easy burden to bear and one He helps us carry.  It is love.  Love God with all you are love your neighbor as you love yourself.  Is that so hard?  We are not asked to take up a sword and drive out Canaanite armies.  In America, thanks be to God, we are not even in danger of being tortured or killed for our faith as many other Christians are around the world. So can’t we be obedient and faithful and love?

Closing
As I close, I want to invite you to decide who you will follow.  Have you ever decided to follow Jesus as a Christian? If not, please do that today.  Ask God to forgive you for the ways you've turned your back on Him up until today.  Now make a commitment to follow Christ and ask Jesus to help you keep your commitment.  From this day on, seek to be obedient and faithful to God through Christ.  

Perhaps you are already a Christian.  Maybe you even became a Christian a long time ago.  Have you been faithful or have you drifted from the faith or from your commitment? If so, please chose to recommit your life to Jesus today.  God will forgive you for getting off track.  He will help you to make a fresh start if you ask Him.  So ask Him today.